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. The email came from someone who lives in the area (its a small area) but she is also the girlfriend of the person thats son got fired by him and has tried to cause alot of problems because of it. \ Why don't you call her up and get the details? Why not hire a PI for a day?
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do you know for a fact that he got her bfs son fired - or is this something your WH said to cover his tracks?
There is no harm in snooping! His phone, car, time and fidelity are all rightfully yours. Snoop like a bloodhound!
What would you do if you were not afraid?
"Fear is the little death. Fear is the mind-killer" Frank Herbert.
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I do know for a fact that he did get fired and there was aminosity between the previous owner and my H b/c he fired several people that used to work there.
Im just feeling sick over this, he assures me there is nothing going on, his job is ending nov 15 and he is coming home, he has come home every weekend and when he leaves i go crazy withjelousy crazy checking his voicemail (i can look at it online) and his email.
I don't know what to do, im just sick about it, i keep telling myself it will come out if its true and i gotta stop making myself nuts, i can't even function lately its consuming everything.
The lady who emailed me, i emailed her back. she said someone had proof of a previous relationship he had in emails (she told me there were two women). I told her to get her to email them to me, she said she would ask her but she is mad at her for menitoning her name. Should i directly email this one that says she has emails? god i just want to know the truth.
How do you go through this without loosing it?
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Clearly the lady who has the proof doesn't want to talk to you. It's unfortunate, but you will do better to get the proof on your own and not press her.
Just be grateful you got any information at all - so many people aren't even willing to get a little involved, and turn a blind eye.
Yes, it will drive you crazy not knowing the truth, and yet knowing it. Because deep down, you know this is almost certainly the truth. Time to brainstorm. What resources do you have?
For starters, could you borrow the money for a PI? Can you think of any way at all that you or someone else you know could follow him for a day or two?
When it comes to your sanity, November 15 is a lifetime away. You should be in Plan B by then.
A smooth sea never made a skilled mariner.
~ English proverb Neak's Story
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