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OK. So my husband kicked me out. Don't tell me I didn't have to leave. Lawyer told me to for my safety. Locks were
changed. Constructive Desertion. Then all of my belongings except for a few personal items I initially took with me were in the house. No seperation agreement. He then moved his mistress in. He and her went through all of my belongings and decided what I could have and could not have, then tossed them out to the garage. I broke in with the police and locksmith last week when the mistress wouldn't answer the door to discover even my personal papers and important documents had been removed and took pictures. I have him for adultry and cruelty. I would like to sue both of them. Just looking for any experiences as suchh and outcome with either civil suit or divorce. I have filed for divorce and waiting for court date.
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Sorry to read that you are going through this. Filing a Police report and taking photos were the correct steps.
There are lots of things that you can do now such as move back in or get the OW excluded from the house but you will be happier and make a faster recovery if you ignore his bad behaviour and just concentrate on getting divorced with a fair division.
That is, unless you want to try to save your marriage?
Last edited by lied_to_again; 10/25/11 03:22 PM.
3 adult children
Divorced - he was a serial adulterer
Now remarried, thank you MB
(formerly lied_to_again)
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