i believe my husband has been having an affair on and off for 25 years ... thought it was over only to find out he must be having an affair. he would say things i have done or that we have done together that i know we havent done the list goes on and on. I think it is a woman he worked with before and she is single ...we were trying to sell a house in nc. he was in another state monday through friday working and would come home on weekends. i thought things were great until i moved up to where he was working. he will never admit to an affair but has all the signs .. i am so lost. dont know if i should leave. i am financially dependant on him ... i stayed home raised the children and thought we were entering a different life... only to find out he has been busy ... while i was trying to sell our house so we could be together... i dont have evidence but know the signs. i feel like a fool.
dont know where to go from here ... we just bought a house together so i guess he is staying with me but feel like someone is between us..

And, your question is ????

What are the signs you are seeing? Have you done any snooping on his cell phone, computer?