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#2565551 11/18/11 04:44 PM
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I was plan A'ing, getting ready to plan B in our house in another state because WH still had not ended the EA. He decided to file for D and walk out.

Sooooo.... I'm here. 5 young kids. No income. No interim support. I still love him and would do whatever it would take to reunite our family. I don't want a divorce. WH now says he's not sure he believes in God (he used to be agnostic before becoming a Christian in 2002). I'm heartbroken.

Please pray for our family to be healed. Even more for our family to be reunited and WH to realize how lucky he is to have a wife who will go wherever he wants to go for his own career (was military) and 5 beautiful babies. Help him to see that OW is not all he thinks she is and isn't the answer to happiness, that God and his blessings can be the only source of real joy.


I am BW to WH of 9 years, 11 together
5 kids- 1, 3, 5, 7, and 9 years old
OW is in another state, WH moved to be with her and her 3 kids
D-day of EA/PA Jan 11, Fully Disclosed July 2011
Plan B September 11 against my will when WH filed Divorce
OW dumped WH in May, WH wants divorce final but to work on things
Divorce Settlement Facilitation Completed, divorce final second week of July
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Heavenly Father I pray first for this wife who is facing difficult times. I pray Lord that you would give her wisdom and strength to be able to deal with the situation that faces her. I pray Lord she would see that her husband must have a willingness to change and that some things are beyond her control. But Lord nothing is beyond your works. So I pray Lord this husband would be convicted of his wrong by You. I pray Lord he would feel the devastation he is causing his family. Lord I pray you would burden his heart. Lord I pray he would turn around in repentance before it is too late. Lord we give you thanks for listening and we look forward with expectation to Your mighty works.

In Jesus name,
Amen


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