Thanks for the kind words and help along the way. Things are going to be interesting for a time.

The VAR was enlightening. She told me the last number I found with a lewd picture was to her old co-worker. Was telling anyone she called that story. Yet, one person she called, "Your number came up, and I went into a panic." It seemed obvious to me that it was a different person, because she did already tell the old co-worker about it, in a joking way. Blah blah. Then to this person, the same thing was said again. Only the panic part. Also, in closing with that person, say goodnight to your girls. The old co-worker only has one daughter.

Oh well, there is probably the closest I am going to get to the truth.

Again, thanks.

-Crestfallen.

I would keep snooping ... that is only one day ... let her slip up some more .. she will. Keep the Plan A up .. change you for you.

I just noticed where you are from. I have a couple of friends up that way. Go figure, know them through MMO's.

Anyway, I kinda plan on it. Going to keep to Plan A. Even though with what I have heard so far, she is either so into W world or just plain crazy. -shrugs-

Thanks NiceGuy. I needed that.

Hey .. thats what niceguys are for! :P Just remain calm ... but assertive in your boundries.

You just noticed where i am from .. becasue i just added it .. lol. Good eye! I love BC!

Hah, I have a habit of looking. Don't know why.

At this stage, it's time for Plan D anyway. I can't take the lies anymore. She has no remorse...and will never come clean about anything except for what I have proof of. She just keeps throwing things in my face. Like I need counseling and how I said I would. Only thing is, I said I would if she NC with original OM. Which she didn't and refused to. But that's besides the point.

An update to things. First off, I'd like to thank all those that helped me get through the pain that all betrayed go through.

So, I'm getting divorced, and have am working on getting the financing to buy her out of the house. Such a slow process, but a good step in the right direction. Though, on the plus side of things, I will a full time employee by the end of the month with full benefits. Glorious news to an otherwise bad situation.

Of all the things I never thought would happen, I received the most interesting text message yesterday morning. In fact, it validated something which I had no proof of otherwise.

I think I spoke of my WW "friend" three states away, actually Connecticut. For a long time I figured she was emotionally involved with this man, whom she met while training for her job. Anyway, his wife texted me to tell me she found 2 months worth of "gag inducing" text messages between the two.

In a way, it's nice to know for sure now, but I feel bad for the OM wife. I know what it's like. If I had been able to get her number I would have tried to contact her months ago. From what I understand from her is that maybe this isn't the first time he has strayed. So, me WW has now ruined not one, but two marriages with her "needs". Actually, it might be three with the physical affair that I exposed to everyone I could before.

But either way, I'm doing well, if not kind of scared and excited all at once for the future. Here's looking up though!

-Crestfallen32