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Re: Please advise i like a married man
charmedling #2570954 12/02/11 04:57 PM
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Originally Posted by charmedling
The best I can do is just tell him no more contact. Not possible I get to his wife? How? I don't know her don't know her name don't know anything about her.
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You should tell her what you did with her husband. This is something she has a right to know.

And I agree you should also tell your parents so they can help train you to learn appropriate boundaries around men and help hold you accountable. They have a vested interest to hold you accountable because they care about you and they don't want you to bring shame and scandal on their family.

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Re: Please advise i like a married man
charmedling #2570955 12/02/11 04:58 PM
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How old are you?

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Re: Please advise i like a married man
MelodyLane #2570966 12/02/11 05:11 PM
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Re: Please advise i like a married man
charmedling #2570970 12/02/11 05:16 PM
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Originally Posted by charmedling
Iam attached

You have a boyfriend?
He needs to know as well.

Tell your parents. They can help.
Tell your boyfriend. It is his right to know.
Tell MM's wife.

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Re: Please advise i like a married man
charmedling #2570973 12/02/11 05:19 PM
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This would be an excellent book for you to buy/read.

The One

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Re: Please advise i like a married man
sweetpea2011 #2570975 12/02/11 05:23 PM
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I suggested the letter because I'm assuming charmed will never have the guts to call the wife or see her.
If she's too gutless to call the poor wife, she'll be too gutless to send a letter.

Charmedless, I'm sure you're looking for the softest landing you can find for this, but it's not going to be that easy. You have grievously interfered in another woman's marriage. It's going to take more than throwing an envelope in the mail to make this right. This is the outcome of a poor decision.

If a murderer is really, really sorry, is all forgiven and forgotten? Nope. It's admirable that they have repented for their crime, but compensation to their victim is still required.

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