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Saw this movie on Saturday by the same guys/church that did Fireproof and Facing the Giants (but they've gotten a lot better at acting and spent a lot more on the production).

I don't cry at movies...I did.

My daughter loved it to. We all held hands (when we weren't eating popcorn)





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That looks like a great movie! I teared up just watching the trailer and I don't even know what happens.


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We saw this a couple weeks ago. Our church teamed up with another church to sponsor several showings at the local theater. We really liked it!


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For those who've seen both....which is better?

Is it important to have seen Fire Proof first?

Is it one for the family or as a date night with wife?

Are there any scenes that might trigger a WS or BS?





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Originally Posted by TexasTwoStep
For those who've seen both....which is better?

As a father I would say Courageous is better. My wife seemed to like it better too. My 12 year old daughter loved it. As I think I said above...much better production. These amateur actors have come a long way.




Is it important to have seen Fire Proof first?

Not at all. Some of the same actors but completely separate story/movie. Kirk Cameron is not in this one.


Is it one for the family or as a date night with wife?

I thought it was tremendous as a family. But, I suppose if you've been a crappy absent uninvolved father up to that point it could make you uncomfortable as your children give you sideways glances and cry wishing YOU were (or worse, older kids that wish you had been) that kind of dad.


Are there any scenes that might trigger a WS or BS?

That's a loaded question as just about anything "MIGHT" trigger someone. Honoring your marriage is mentioned as part of the commitment to being a better father and husband but it's not the central point of the movie and their isn't any infidelity in the movie at all. It will certainly invoke tears and emotions as it's designed to but it's a positive message of overcoming tragedy...an awakening

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Mr. W,

Thank you for your reply. As a father of 3 DD, I have not been an absent father. I love them, and make time for them at every moment. Glad to hear there is no EA or PA in the movie.....way too much of that these days.

I think I will make this a family StayCation.....hotel room, dinner out, movie and swimming when we return. The kids love these. They don't care we are only 15 minutes from home, to them (and me), it's a night away from reality.

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Quote from the trailer;

"I don't feel like I started well, I want to finish well."

I'll probably seek this one out. I was impressed with how Fireproof involved faith, but managed to not come across as patronizing or condemning.


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Originally Posted by MrWondering
As a father I would say Courageous is better. My wife seemed to like it better too. My 11 year old daughter loved it.
Your daughter is 12, MrW! doh2


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Originally Posted by SugarCane
Originally Posted by MrWondering
As a father I would say Courageous is better. My wife seemed to like it better too. My 12 year old daughter loved it.
You're a wonderful father, MrW!


Thank you

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Originally Posted by MrWondering
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Originally Posted by MrWondering
As a father I would say Courageous is better. My wife seemed to like it better too. My 11 year old daughter loved it.
Your daughter is 12, MrW! doh2


That's what I said, didn't I????

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Originally Posted by MrWondering
Originally Posted by SugarCane
Originally Posted by MrWondering
As a father I would say Courageous is better. My wife seemed to like it better too. My 12 year old daughter loved it.
You're a wonderful father, MrW!


Thank you

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HAHAHAHA!!!!



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Originally Posted by SugarCane
Originally Posted by MrWondering
Originally Posted by SugarCane
Originally Posted by MrWondering
As a father I would say Courageous is better. My wife seemed to like it better too. My 12 year old daughter loved it.
You're a wonderful father, MrW!


Thank you

Mr. W

I mean it. You and Mrs. W are my heroes. Such a blessing to have you both in my life.


Thanks again. That made our year. grin

Mr. W



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Originally Posted by SugarCane
I mean it. You and Mrs. W are my heroes. Such a blessing to have you both in my life.


Thanks again. That made our year. grin

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Oh dear! I must make an appointment with my doctor. I must have been sleepwalking last night, because I don't remember writing that at all!


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