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O.K. I will do this and hopefully things will start to go for the better because I have done everthing to this point and nothing has worked and i love my daughter but will not tolerate this sort of behavior from her!
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We're all behind you. We know it is less than fun being manipulated by a wayward. But being empowered and having a plan helps so much.
What would you do if you were not afraid?
"Fear is the little death. Fear is the mind-killer" Frank Herbert.
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Maybe your right but Russian girls are different then American
just sayin... Girls are girls. We have a bosnian friend who throws tantrums and is very emotional. Her H always calmly responds and never budges. He manages her very well. It takes a strong man to manage a strong willed wild person, but it can be done. Mel is right though, never reward a wayward for their bad behavior. Or anyone else for that matter!
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Maybe your right but Russian girls are different then American
just sayin... I am IRISH and TEXAN. nuf said? 
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Maybe your right but Russian girls are different then American
just sayin... I am IRISH and TEXAN. nuf said? It all makes sense, now Mel.
What would you do if you were not afraid?
"Fear is the little death. Fear is the mind-killer" Frank Herbert.
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On the topic of eblast i think that's just for computer not for
a cell phone is this what i would need for a cell phone?Would like to get it it's like 100 though?
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You believe then i will to but yeah that's funny!I am greek half,irish german and dutch on my mother's side i am good
hearted but also will blow a fuse if i think i been wronged
enough!Maybe that's the german and irish,lol!
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On the topic of eblast i think that's just for computer not for
a cell phone is this what i would need for a cell phone?Would like to get it it's like 100 though? They have eblaster for cell phones now and it runs about $65. It is really good! It works on Androids and blackberry's.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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You believe then i will to but yeah that's funny!I am greek half,irish german and dutch on my mother's side i am good
hearted but also will blow a fuse if i think i been wronged
enough!Maybe that's the german and irish,lol! I have a hefty dose of Dutch in there that keeps me out of prison. 
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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o.k. that's great as long as she won't detect it and guess i have to find a website.
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Too Funny!!! yeah she is usually home by now told her in a text how it will be probably crying to him,oh well!! and that's life!
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You believe then i will to but yeah that's funny!I am greek half,irish german and dutch on my mother's side i am good
hearted but also will blow a fuse if i think i been wronged
enough!Maybe that's the german and irish,lol! I have a hefty dose of Dutch in there that keeps me out of prison. Oh lordy... A dutch woman... If you ain't dutch.... 
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Thank-You for all your words I appreciate the support not easy
when someone puts you down that your not good enough nnot educated enough funny how she married me though.
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Didn't read all your story but the parts i did
i was blown away by your story,god bless!
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Ooh yes the put downs! I forgot about those days. I have a first class degree, I am my friends go-to girl for fun and I am hot (scientifically proven) but as soon as his A with a dumpy moron began I was stupid, boring and old. And I believed him....  Waywards all the same Im afraid. Always reminds me of the lyrics to 'something inside so strong' Brothers and sisters When they insist we're just not good enough When we know better Just look 'em in the eyes and say I'm gonna do it anyway I'm gonna do it anyway That song could have been written about dealing with a wayward...
What would you do if you were not afraid?
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I want to move back to my bedroom but that will be a big blow up plus my daughter still sleeping in this bed will want her to sleep their and she will give me a hard time i just know it yeah it sucks and unfair i have felt this pain now for almost a year,it hurts alot! You and your 4yo daughter are sleeping in the same bed? Think about how an angry wayward could "spin" that bit of information. Get back in your own bed and get your daughter her own.
Me 58: FWH (NC 32 yr), W 60, married 36 yr, DD 32
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No,sorry daughter sleeping with my wife not in y bed.
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Yeah great stuff yeah i think iam good looking but somehow i still get the put down.
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Maybe your right but Russian girls are different then American
just sayin... I am IRISH and TEXAN. nuf said? I know you are long sober now, but when I see this, I think DRUNK with GUNS lol.
Marriage is the triumph of imagination over intelligence. Second marriage is the triumph of hope over experience.
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Didn't read all your story but the parts i did
i was blown away by your story,god bless! Thanks! Just finished reading the whole thread here... Strong... Be strong... Not a bully, but unmovable in your position. Like a freaking mountain, not a volcano. Quiet, unmovable, majestic. In MB terms, no angry outbursts. no disrespectful judgments, just be firm as heck in your boundaries and let her marvel and rage against an unmovable object. Eventually the raging should stop. CV
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