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I donno,  I wrote original carrot/stick 2006. I can't 'splain it. Coz, I can't remember. 
Last edited by Pepperband; 12/11/11 04:23 PM.
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So they strike again...
A poster came on yesterday trying to explain unmet needs as the most motivating factor in most affairs, and everyone started saying she was making excuses for the cheater. The poster spoke about LB and HNHN and she was getting roasted. Dr. Harley usually directs people with that impression to SAA, which is the missing piece of the puzzle. Someone with a wayward mentality can easily use HNHN to justify an affair. SAA disabuses us of that notion.
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I cannot understand why anyone would have a problem with Dr. Harley's books and articles. There is so much truth in them. His words make so much sense.
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ITA. HNHN was such practical information that I almost got upset at myself b/c it was so much common sense. I didn't get mad, though. We live and we learn.
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Married 10 yrs
DDay - Early November 2010
WS filed Divorce 11/9/10
Divorce final 12/22/11
1 Corinthians 13:7: (LOVE) Beareth all things, believeth all things, HOPETH all things, endureth all things.
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