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I'm not sure what the rules are as far as being able to contact another member. But if the mods or someone can get me in touch with Bitbucket, I need some legal advice that I don't really want to post on the forum.

I will be contacting an attorney but I would like to get some general legal advice on a specific subject.

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KT, I believe the correct procedure is for you to contact the administrator Justuss2@aol.com and let them know that you are requesting contact and why. The admin will then contact the other member and make it known that you would like to exchange email addresses. At that point it is up to the other member to make contact with you. I've done this myself and I appreciated the extra layer of privacy. There are too many kooks out there on the net to make the info public these days! Plus, we have actually had a couple of cases of stalking, harassment, and just plain old nefarious reasons (not sayin that's the case here, just explaining the reasoning for the process as I understand it.).


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Thanks, PM! I completely understand the privacy layer on here. I'll shoot Justus an email...thanks for the info!


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Originally Posted by kilted_thrower
I'm not sure what the rules are as far as being able to contact another member. But if the mods or someone can get me in touch with Bitbucket, I need some legal advice that I don't really want to post on the forum.

I will be contacting an attorney but I would like to get some general legal advice on a specific subject.

Thanks!

Did you mean Brits/brat? I thought Bitbucket was an Engineer. Maybe he's both....I forget.

I'll help if you want and if I can. My email is provided (by permission) below.

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Originally Posted by kilted_thrower
I'm not sure what the rules are as far as being able to contact another member. But if the mods or someone can get me in touch with Bitbucket, I need some legal advice that I don't really want to post on the forum.

I will be contacting an attorney but I would like to get some general legal advice on a specific subject.

Thanks!

Hey KT - I got the email from JustUss, but Mr W is right - I'm an engineer and any advice I give you on legal matters would be worth what you pay for it. Actually I'm a project lead now and becoming less and less of an engineer every day crybaby

Though some of my gaming friends have called me a rules lawyer laugh


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Oh. I had Brits brat and bitbucket confused. Ill shoot you an email Mr. W

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