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Ok I need some guidance here on my situation here it would help a lot...
Well me and my wife have been married since dec09
We've known each other since we were in 4th grade
We both are 26 now but we only dated a short while before getting married
I was in the military at the time serving my third tour over in the sandbox anywAys when I got back I my son wasn't born yet and they shipped me over to Korea well I was able to see my son be born in the states and they stationed me back in the states well I started having problems with ptsd issues and my wife basically didn't want to deal with it so I started drinking and taking pills to ease everything that I had been threw in my 3 deployments I was a scout so my job was very dqngerous.. anyways I never had laid a hand or even verbally abused my wife she iand my son are the bet thing that I have ever had and want I even asked her for help and she said she couldn't help me well she moved back in with her mok with my son and he plan was for me to get out the military and move back down well I was like a week before getting out so I packed up the house in a uhaul and drove 600m to our house and put everything in there well I stayed for a few days and the day I was leaving she told me she didn't want to be with me and wanted to be separated so when I got out I had to love in my family so I can save enough money to back to the state of Fla I go down every couple months to visit my son which is only 16m old I do what I can ya know I send more than 300 a month for my son which I send to the mother in law cause that's who is actually taking care of my son my wife lives with a roommate now and my son stays with the motherinlaw one minute she's acting cool who me and the next she don't want nothing ro do with me I just don't know what to do
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skot, welcome to Marriage Builders.
Who is your wife living with? Have you met this person? Are you saying your wife is living with a roommate and your son is living with his grandmother?
Why don't you move back there, instead of driving there for visitation with your son?
Have you or your wife started separation or divorce proceedings?
D-Day 2-10-2009
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