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#2587098 01/18/12 10:16 PM
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Please post plan B letter examples and things I should do and consider before giving the letter. Thank you so much!!!


Me: 26
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Married 6 years.
Two kids under age of 2.5
WH had LTA/double life of 7 yrs with coworker.
Found out the OW was even at my wedding.
Found out about LTA 5 months ago via late night unexpected incomming text message.
Separated from WH, but trying to make things work.
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Have you done Plan A?

Need to know your situation.


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Repost this on your original thread so people can follow your situation as it develops. Stick to one thread. It will bump to the top of the board with every post.

That being said, I had a massive computer crash Sunday and lost all my bookmarks, but someone will be here to help shortly.


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Oh ok, I was wondering how that works. Thank you for the tip.


Me: 26
WH: 28
Married 6 years.
Two kids under age of 2.5
WH had LTA/double life of 7 yrs with coworker.
Found out the OW was even at my wedding.
Found out about LTA 5 months ago via late night unexpected incomming text message.
Separated from WH, but trying to make things work.

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