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Think I lovebusted
#25879 11/01/99 09:59 AM
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As some of you know, my H had an "inappropriate friendship" or EA on the internet. It's long over (as far as I know) but I still have my suspicions.<P>Today I saw him on my ISP (his too) which he used to use to talk to his girlfriends. Now of course he could have been doing legitimate work, but I had to ask him. I said "what are you doing on that machine?". He paused for about two seconds then said he was helping someone at work with their email. Ok, maybe it's true. Maybe I'm too distrusting. Let's say I'm wrong to have these suspicions. <P>The upshot is, now he sounds upset that I suspected him. I don't want to drag all this up again and I regret even asking him. How can I smooth things over so tonight doesn't end up in a knock down, drag out?
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Cristalle--<P>You could always put him off guard by being in a fabulous mood tonight. See what happens if you don't bring it up, but you're bubbly and enthused about being with him. He may forget about that lovebusting. [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]

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