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Hey MM! So nice to see you again!
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Hey MM! So nice to see you again! You too! How are you?
Standing in His PresenceFBS (me) (48) FWW (41) Married April 1993... 4 kids (19(B), 17(G), 14(B), 4(B)) Blessed by God more than I deserve "If Jesus is your co-pilot...you need to change seats!"Link: The Roles of Husbands and Wives
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MM,
I've been reading your threads from the past and I'm up to the thread "MM update: She gets it". I had to stop reading because I'm at work and began to get emotional. I pray that I will have the same outcome as you have. It's only been a few months that I've been enduring this situation, but I can see the light at the end of the tunnel and I can only hope to have the same end result as you. I hate that my situation closely resembles yours because of the time it took your wife to come back. The good news is that you never gave up and eventually got what you wanted. I hope I can hang in there as long as you did. Thanks for the inspiration.
Me: BH 36 Her: WW 34 Kids: D 14, S 12, S 9 DDay 1-6/2009 DDay 2-9/2011 DDay 3-11/2011 Filed for D 10/2011-Papers Served 11/2011 Divorce final May 24, 2012 My Story
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MM,
I've been reading your threads from the past and I'm up to the thread "MM update: She gets it". I had to stop reading because I'm at work and began to get emotional. I pray that I will have the same outcome as you have. It's only been a few months that I've been enduring this situation, but I can see the light at the end of the tunnel and I can only hope to have the same end result as you. I hate that my situation closely resembles yours because of the time it took your wife to come back. The good news is that you never gave up and eventually got what you wanted. I hope I can hang in there as long as you did. Thanks for the inspiration. No matter what happens, you will be a success if you go through this. Please know this!
Standing in His PresenceFBS (me) (48) FWW (41) Married April 1993... 4 kids (19(B), 17(G), 14(B), 4(B)) Blessed by God more than I deserve "If Jesus is your co-pilot...you need to change seats!"Link: The Roles of Husbands and Wives
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I will have the first Mortarman update up later tonight. Will be a long one, since I was offline for so long. Can you post a link to your update? 
Recovery began 10/07;
Meeting my wife's EN's is my "thank you" that refuses to be silenced.
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No matter what happens, you will be a success if you go through this. Please know this! SO TRUE.
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING  Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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Thanks NG. I missed it, actually. And on the ascending issue, I have a huge motivation to strangle military members in adultery. I want to inflict pain on every one of them. They have no honor!
As an IG, I dealt with countless of these. Too many...
But, being in the position I was, I was able to make things right. It is the way all of our society should be. I'll tell you, I wish I had known you 3.5 years ago. My wife was having an A with a Marine, and i did eventually expose, but it wasn't easy. his command made it hard. I actually threatened to put up a billboard if they didn't discipline him. It would've read: "does the USMC know justice? OM doesn't... This Marine has been sleeping with my wife" Seriously. Thankfully they gave him brig time and i didn't have to spend the money, but they sure made it hard on me. CV Sorry to hear that! But hey...they finally did the right thing, right? Sometimes, it takes a little shove to get people to do the right thing. Oh, and I like the billboard idea!
Standing in His PresenceFBS (me) (48) FWW (41) Married April 1993... 4 kids (19(B), 17(G), 14(B), 4(B)) Blessed by God more than I deserve "If Jesus is your co-pilot...you need to change seats!"Link: The Roles of Husbands and Wives
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I will have the first Mortarman update up later tonight. Will be a long one, since I was offline for so long. Can you post a link to your update? I will soon. We are closing on a house at the end of the month...so we are frazzled, as you can possibly imagine!
Standing in His PresenceFBS (me) (48) FWW (41) Married April 1993... 4 kids (19(B), 17(G), 14(B), 4(B)) Blessed by God more than I deserve "If Jesus is your co-pilot...you need to change seats!"Link: The Roles of Husbands and Wives
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Sorry to hear that! But hey...they finally did the right thing, right?
Sometimes, it takes a little shove to get people to do the right thing.
Oh, and I like the billboard idea! They did. Took me a while to talk to another Marine. Every time I saw one I wanted to hurt them (and I was one!). I wish I could take credit for the billboard idea. Where I did grad school there was this huge highway that everyone drove to get downtown. I saw some guy out there with a sandwich board on that said "Sarah, I am sorry. I will Never be an adulterer again" or something similar to it. Dude was out there for 2 weeks I think. Every day at rush hour. Talk about just compensation! CV
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Standing in His PresenceFBS (me) (48) FWW (41) Married April 1993... 4 kids (19(B), 17(G), 14(B), 4(B)) Blessed by God more than I deserve "If Jesus is your co-pilot...you need to change seats!"Link: The Roles of Husbands and Wives
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Hey Mortaman - welcome back!
Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW)
D-Day August 2005
Married 11/1982 3 Sons 27,25,23
Empty Nesters.
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Still in suspense over that update
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Still in suspense over that update I think we'll need to wait a while longer still. BUT GRRRRRRR. Sorry Mortarman, but we're ALL thinking it.
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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Still in suspense over that update I think we'll need to wait a while longer still. BUT GRRRRRRR. Sorry Mortarman, but we're ALL thinking it. tis true!
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