To this board. And the wise men and women on it.

I cannot explain properly my gratitude and thanks for all the help I recieved from this board, and I give so much credit to th eguidance and support that helped me save my marriage, and make my whole life better.

It is so helpful to be here- to read, to learn, to watch- and to know, so very deeply, what the right tools are to have a thriving marriage.

I needed to post this- because I have watched a few people really struggle lately, dealing with infidelity- and I have begged them to post here. I tell them they deserve so much more and can have so much more. And they will not do it. Some have have posted here- and then they run. It's too hard. They think it's too extreme. So I watch them run elsewhere- to a general population that has no idea how to save a marriage- and I watch them get mollycoddled into disaster. No, they cannot expose. No, they cannot tell their children the truth. They get bad advice from people who don't get it- and I know how that story ends.

And then I take a deep breath. And I remember that I am a lucky one. I listened. I let y'all help me. And I am deeply grateful every day.

So if you are lurking- and you think the suggestions are extreme- they aren't. They are necessary. And you will not believe how many amazing things are ahead of you. If you just open your mind.

It's an amazing forum. With amazing peeps.

Yes, it truly is and yes, they truly are. I just wish everyone that came here would actually listen to and implement the tools provided here necessary to repair their marriages like Ridic has.

Frustrating at times, but I understand the fear of action. Don't subscribe to it, but I understand it.