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<BR>well, well, after H says 100% <BR>honest and I know all, I find out <BR>more. Why waste my time on <BR>reconciliation, the heartbreak <BR>and hell, the $%#@ devastation of <BR>his mess if he is still lying. <BR>May seem nothing to all readers, <BR>but this H of mine started his <BR>career in cheating via cybersex <BR>and receiving pictures in the <BR>mail of his on-line dates. Don't <BR>know about you, but that's <BR>cheating to me. And I remember a <BR>few months ago when I asked him <BR>about pictures of nasty naked <BR>women, he claimed they were for <BR>some bachelor party of a friend I <BR>never heard of. When will the <BR>lies end. Doesn't he know how <BR>much each lie rips me apart. I <BR>know, it will end when I say <BR>enough. This gets me thinking not <BR>about recociliation but of other <BR>options...
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I was in the same situation. My H loved pornagraphy and cyber sex/pictures. I think it dragged him down a little deeper, where he was able to forget his morals and have an affair. Because he refuses to give up that lifestyle, I have had to distance myself further from him - if only to prevent myself from being dragged down as well. Is there anything redeeming left of your H or has he "totally turned to the Dark Side"?
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Kate31 - redeeming, Idon't know anymore. Maybe redeeming in my head where my dreams of a beautiful life with him still live on. But his actions speak louder then words and all the actions do are conflict his words. Tired now but thanks for your thoughts and good night.
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