I guess that I should start posting here instead of the infidelity forum. We are doing beautifully. My wife is slowly but surely regaining her self-esteem, and I am past the anger stage. We still trigger. She will be reminded about her affair and her self-image suffers and she gets depressed, but not so much anymore, and when it does happen, she comes right to me and cries and I cuddle her and she can get over it quicker. When I trigger, I get moody and she will do something silly to make me laugh, or hold me and love me which is much better than a sharp stick in the eye. LOL The Townhouse is coming along nicely and we will probably move into it next month, and do the interior decor ourselves. My older daughter is now engaged and to a MARINE!! On a scale of 1-10 that's about a 20. My younger daughter is getting closer to her mom, and hasn't really had too many issues relating to the affair, so that's all good. Life is way better than I ever thought it would be again.

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Thanks, PB. We are doing really well and I am , of course, thrilled by my daughter's choice.

Congrats!

Thanks, IP we are planning a Military wedding, and the whole nine yards.

MM,

I am so happy for the positive changes in your life and the growth your family has gone through, keep up the happy choices and treat each other with respect and never get lazy again............
I am picturing all the handsome men in uniforms and all the happy smiles........you must be so grateful and proud...........
jessi

Thak you, Jesi. My daughter asked if I would wear my dress blues, NOW I have to try to get back down to my fighting weight, so I can fit in them.