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If you want to do Plan A, then read over this: http://forum.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2296184The most difficult part is doing this with no expectations, as it's quite normal to expect her to "snap out of it" as you improve yourself and show her how the marriage can be. Her back and forth, up and down, is normal, by the way.
Me (BH)
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Married 2000, DS 8, DD 6, DD 2
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If I ask her out for a lunch or walk or? I feel like she may freak out but if I do nothing then I'm waiting on her which could never happen. Call Steve and make an appointment for yourself. Get his guidance on how to persuade her to get on the phone. Then ask her to go out on a lunch date with you. If she agrees then focus on being as pleasant as possible.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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RT, are you there?
Please update if you are there warrior.
FWH 42 (me)
BW 43
M 20yrs
3 DS 14, 17, 18
As for God his way is perfect, the word of the Lord is flawless. He is a shield to all who take refuge in him.~Proverbs 18:30
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