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Sending you love Pepperband.


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Please get better and return soon here! You made me feel better by telling me the truth abut my EX husband that cheating no good excuse for 3 legged man!!. I am praying for you!!!
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Originally Posted By: GloveOil
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Pep ~
You have been my godsend here...
Your wisdom and maturity in the Lord gives me strength...
My thoughts and prayers for you are steadfast...
Hugs in Christ ~
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Praying for you too, Pepperband, get well soon!


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A message from a family member--

Hello to all, A phone call from ****Pep's H. Doctor said all was satisfactory with surgery(7+ hrs!) and that she is in recovery now.
Guess we will hear more tomorrow. Thought some of you would like to know.


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Hooray! She'll be back to filtering wayward crapola and kicking butt in no time!


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praying for you pep! you are in my thoughts! get better and come back!


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Originally Posted By: JustUss
A message from a family member--

Hello to all, A phone call from ****Pep's H. Doctor said all was satisfactory with surgery(7+ hrs!) and that she is in recovery now.
Guess we will hear more tomorrow. Thought some of you would like to know.


Hooray! Looking forward to hearing from you again real soon, Pep. I know you'll have some marvelously witty comments to make about this whole ordeal. smile


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Thats great news JustUs .. thanks!

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you'll have some marvelously witty comments to make

Yeah, but also to endure, like how the operation would have taken only FOUR hours if she'd have just stopped giving them advice on how to do their jobs!

Wonderful news!

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Good to hear. Miss ya, Pep. I have faith you can finger wag it all back into shape!


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She looks like she came through OK on her FB page.


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Praying for a speedy recovery!


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Yay! Get well soon pep


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Pep:

Praying for a smooth recovery! I miss you!

(Pepperband says: Who the hell are you, and why do you miss me? Surfer88 replies: See? That's how far reaching you are, girl. Now get back here this instant!)

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Thank you everyone. I am replying from my iPhone. I'm doing good.

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Good to hear from you, Pep!

Get well soonest!

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Pep,

That's good news. My H and I offer prayers for a swift recovery.

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Woot! Blessings to you and your family and prayers for a thorough recovery.

Originally Posted By: Pepperband
Thank you everyone. I am replying from my iPhone. I'm doing good.

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