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Re: Thoughts Appreciated gracie25 #2608199 03/21/12 09:22 PM
Joined: Mar 2011 Posts: 1,709 P pokerface Member
pokerface Member P Joined: Mar 2011 Posts: 1,709	Originally Posted by gracie25 The ows husband knew about the affair. He new that they continued being "friends" I just don't think that he either (1) considered it an emotional affair or (2) just didn't give a [censored]. gracie. How do you know this? It's possible that he was being gaslighted about the "just friends" the same as you. The OW in my own situation told me that her BH knew all along about her friendship with my FWH and that her BH was okay with it. Turns out that he really had no idea of the true extent of their "friendship". There is a chance that this might be happening here. I like to see BS take care of each other. It will also add an extra set of eyes on the two of them as OW BH will be watching her like a hawk. That is a good thing and will go far in helping you to feel safer. ME: BW HIM: FWH Married 18 yrs DDay 09/2008 and 12/2008 Recovered

Re: Thoughts Appreciated pokerface #2608208 03/21/12 10:04 PM
Joined: Jan 2012 Posts: 14 G gracie25 Junior Member
gracie25 Junior Member G Joined: Jan 2012 Posts: 14	I see what your all saying. I thought I did enough and covered things. I thought so because I believed there is no contact. I'm going to read about exposure and do something. Thx!!

Re: Thoughts Appreciated MelodyLane #2608231 03/21/12 11:09 PM
Joined: Dec 2011 Posts: 1,311 J Justthe3ofus Member
Justthe3ofus Member J Joined: Dec 2011 Posts: 1,311	Originally Posted by MelodyLane How much do billboards cost in your town? I love it!

Re: Thoughts Appreciated Justthe3ofus #2608237 03/21/12 11:36 PM
Joined: Apr 2001 Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1 Texas M MelodyLane Member
MelodyLane Member M Joined: Apr 2001 Posts: 92,985 Likes: 1 Texas	Originally Posted by Justthe3ofus Originally Posted by MelodyLane How much do billboards cost in your town? I love it! "It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101

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