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It's been a few days since I have been here. I have continued to keep my eyes open and nothing has turned up, except that it turns out that I was right about the porn. :-(
How do I go about addressing the porn issue since I have found out about it by means that I do not want him to know? It makes me sad and very disappointed that he is still doing this, but I am also up against the fact that I have turned a blind eye to it for a long time - so he is going to have a hard time hearing me ask him to change.
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Confront him about it, but stay calm and simply refuse to give up your source.
"I know you've been looking at porn."
"HOW DO YOU KNOW???????"
"How I know doesn't matter. What matter is that I know about the porn."
A smooth sea never made a skilled mariner.
~ English proverb Neak's Story
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Also fantastic radio clips on pornography. Radio clip on porn Radio clip on porn
FWW/BW (me)
WH
2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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Well, it's downloaded on my computer so I don't have to worry about the source. I just found it downloaded on here. So I will have it playing for him this evening.
After I confront him, how do I get him to stop?
Last edited by OneTiredLady; 04/20/12 10:40 AM.
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Have you read this? Dr. Harley tells the letter writer what they need to do to get her H to stop watching pornography. Addiction to Pornography #1
FWW/BW (me)
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2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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