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Jedi,
When it immediately happened, I wanted to leave but my DD had 3 years of HS and wanted to finish.
Since I have been with my company more than 30 years and had all the benefits that went with that for me to leave it would have left me in dire straits.
Was it difficult...absolutely...some days it was hell on earth at the beginning.
Eventually, it got easier and i realize i have nothing to hide and have done nothing wrong and the only embarassment is to them.
My DD is now in college living home and doing well.
I have good friends from my church and keep busy all the time with them ior volunteer work. I am blessed...and them not so much . Every situation is different but it worked for me.
Me 55, XWH 53, M 22 years
D17, D30
alien replaces my husband "I'm not happy" -7/08
Discover OW-8/08 (his direct report and I work there also)
H moves out 10/1/08, confront Ow 10/28/08
Plan B 1/09
D final 12/09
Quote: "First thing you do is pray; when there is nothing else to do, continue to pray."
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{{{{{{shout out to pepperband}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
Reading some of these stories...the name changes but same circumstances. i feel for all them. Appreciate all that you have done and will do on this board!
Me 55, XWH 53, M 22 years
D17, D30
alien replaces my husband "I'm not happy" -7/08
Discover OW-8/08 (his direct report and I work there also)
H moves out 10/1/08, confront Ow 10/28/08
Plan B 1/09
D final 12/09
Quote: "First thing you do is pray; when there is nothing else to do, continue to pray."
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Hi Hope, swinging bye to just say hi!
BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
Started over 7-09
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