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Hey AJoseJake,  I just wanted to see how you're doing? I didn't want to t/j the other poster's thread. Are you still going through with the D? I'm glad you're sticking around and helping other betrayed spouses.
FWW/BW (me) WH 2nd M for both Blended Family with 7 kids between us Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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I'm sticking around more for myself than for the other BS, though I am glad if I'm able to help at all with my story  Overall, I am doing quite well. Thanks for asking. A few cracks here and there in Plan B, but sealing those up the best as I can. WW called me when DS3 broke his arm, but I'm glad she did, since the IM was out of town. Emergencies with him kind of negate my personal feelings on speaking with her. Originally, WW said that she would sign the uncontested D papers but she has since renigged. I now have to file uncontested, which will cost a lot more. I also burned through my savings with the "recovery" vacation and coaching with SH, so it may take me a while before I can afford that.
Me: BH XW: Promises83 DS5 Married 10 years, first for both of us D-Day: 27 Oct 11 trickle truth-ed until all 8 OMs were discovered D Final: 16 Aug 2013
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I'm sticking around more for myself than for the other BS, though I am glad if I'm able to help at all with my story  Overall, I am doing quite well. Thanks for asking. A few cracks here and there in Plan B, but sealing those up the best as I can. WW called me when DS3 broke his arm, but I'm glad she did, since the IM was out of town. Emergencies with him kind of negate my personal feelings on speaking with her. Originally, WW said that she would sign the uncontested D papers but she has since renigged. I now have to file uncontested, which will cost a lot more. I also burned through my savings with the "recovery" vacation and coaching with SH, so it may take me a while before I can afford that. Thanks for the update AJ!! I hope your cracks become less so you can heal.
FWW/BW (me) WH 2nd M for both Blended Family with 7 kids between us Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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Sorry to hear about your divorce and your son's broken arm. I hope you find peace AJJ. Take care.
Me: BH 36 Her: WW 34 Kids: D 14, S 12, S 9 DDay 1-6/2009 DDay 2-9/2011 DDay 3-11/2011 Filed for D 10/2011-Papers Served 11/2011 Divorce final May 24, 2012 My Story
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Are you 200% comfortable in your knowledge of the events leading to DS3's broken arm?
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1000%...it happend while he was at daycare and I looked at the accident report.
Me: BH XW: Promises83 DS5 Married 10 years, first for both of us D-Day: 27 Oct 11 trickle truth-ed until all 8 OMs were discovered D Final: 16 Aug 2013
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1000%...it happend while he was at daycare and I looked at the accident report. Poor little guy. Did dad let him get a cool color for his cast? 
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Mom took him in for the casting, but he got red. Red is a cool color. I'm going to draw something awesome on there for him. If I had to guess, he's going to ask for a T-rex.
Me: BH XW: Promises83 DS5 Married 10 years, first for both of us D-Day: 27 Oct 11 trickle truth-ed until all 8 OMs were discovered D Final: 16 Aug 2013
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Mom took him in for the casting, but he got red. Red is a cool color. I'm going to draw something awesome on there for him. If I had to guess, he's going to ask for a T-rex. Red is cool. Yup get your drawing skills on. 
FWW/BW (me) WH 2nd M for both Blended Family with 7 kids between us Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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