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Re: Please advise.
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i have a step bro to go to. He'd been telling me my WH will never change, a tiger will never lose its stripes.

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Re: Please advise.
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Originally Posted by needsomeadvise
i have a step bro to go to. He'd been telling me my WH will never change, a tiger will never lose its stripes.
Ok so when will you be exposing?

You have all the templates in the exposure thread that I posted to you, correct? I would sit down and copy them and put your information in.

How will you be exposing? Facebooks, phone calls?

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Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
Re: Please advise.
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last night he went out again and when back he was totally high.
I found out there is semen stain on his underwear as his underwear got wet and i can see the semen there glistening and sticky.

I think of exposing thru FB and fax to his office...

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2 sons (8 & 10)
Separated for 1yr+ and halfway through divorced procedure then reconciled for 1yr+
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Re: Please advise.
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Originally Posted by needsomeadvise
last night he went out again and when back he was totally high.
I found out there is semen stain on his underwear as his underwear got wet and i can see the semen there glistening and sticky.

I think of exposing thru FB and fax to his office...
Did you keep his underwear and put it in a baggie for later. You may need it.

So you have the templates to expose, correct? When do you plan to expose. Sit down and do it all at once.
Also are you documenting all this? Write it down in a safe place, especially the parts with drugs.

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2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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do i dry the underwear for keeping? will it destroy the semen stain?

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2 sons (8 & 10)
Separated for 1yr+ and halfway through divorced procedure then reconciled for 1yr+
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Re: Please advise.
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Originally Posted by needsomeadvise
do i dry the underwear for keeping? will it destroy the semen stain?
Check this out. Semen Detectors

FWW/BW (me)
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2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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