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Others can chime in if they think that's a bad idea. I'm just thinking it might make you feel better if you know she at least signed for it - if she never contacts you. It absolutely should be certified mail. That way LD knows she got it. The post office can email you confirmation when she signs for it. LD, you could also call her after you get confirmation that she has gotten the letter. She may be open to talking to you for more information. That's when you can tell her what you know in your calm and collected voice, so she sees that you're not some nut who is trying to hassle her husband.
D-Day 2-10-2009
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maritalbliss,
We will do certified mail. My wife wants to write the letter including my contact info. She wants to point Mrs. Sleazy to marriagebuilders.com. She wants to point out that Mr. Sleazy is choosing specific independent recreational activities (video games and sports) and Mrs. Sleazy needs work with him to come up with activities they can join in together. Is that getting too personal about Mr. Sleazy?
I have found their address but their phone number is unlisted so calling is not an option.
Thank you all for you time and thoughtfulness.
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I would give her just the facts.
FWW/BW (me)
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2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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Don't go into how to 'fix' the OM's marriage in the letter. It may be insulting to OMW and she will be defensive about her marriage skills. Keep it brief and to the point. Use the NC letter on this site for guidance.
D-Day 2-10-2009
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We will do certified mail. My wife wants to write the letter including my contact info...I have found their address...
LD, are you still here? Did you follow through? To what effect?
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