The cassette recorders are sold anywhere,,Radio Shack, WalMart, Target, etc. Usually about the size of a deck of cards or smaller. You want to be sure you get a Voice Activated Recorder.

Yes, the recorder, although connected to only one phone, will record all phones in the house with that phone number.

I installed mobilestealth on my W LG Optimus M android and it sucks. Here are the issues:

� Customer support takes 2-3 days to respond
� Record of surroundings works only when the target person is playing with the phone. Only got 2 positive recording out of 20 intents.
� Record of surroundings they advertise as stealth. Thats not true. You need to send an sms to the target phone to activate the recording (which usually doesn�t work). The sms is shown in the target phone. NOT STEALTH AT ALL
� Contact list on the target phone won�t automatically update and if you delete it from the mobilstealth club site you need to send a message to customer support to get it back. It takes 1 week to get a new contact list.
� Call Recording is only supported in Iphones and blackberries
� Call history and sms history have a big delay (8-12 hours)
� SMS (text messages) wont match the actual sms sent and received. There are some of them missing (I visually checked this out)
� GPS location is not instantaneous as they advertise. It record location every 10 minutes.
� GPS locations are very unaccurate Longitude wise. Latitude seems to be ok. It works ok if you copy and paste the coordinates in google map but you need to play a little bit with the Longitude.
� From 1-10 I will rate it 3. To expensive for what you will get ($80 for 3 months servic

I used mobile-spy on my wife's motorola Devour and it works except for the GPS feature, something to do with Verizon's service, but for reading texts and seeing the incoming and outgoing calls and duration it worked fine.

It cost me $99 for a year

Here is the link http://www.mobile-spy.com/

I used mobilespy on my wife's Blackberry. Call and SMS logging worked, but the program caused radical battery drain. From fully charged in the am, it was almost dead by 10:30 am. Would not fully charge while sitting on her desk at work all day, and was almost dead again by time she got home. I had to uninstall that evening, so only got one days use out of it. Fortunately, I used the free trial.

Are there any products out there for blackberry that don't kill the battery?

Lago, I haven't heard of that happening with eblaster, so you might want that. It is at spectorsoft.com

Geez how long does that take to download install and activate? I only have 5-10 mins max

Is there one for the iPhone 4?

Does this work on iPhone 4s with 5.0 newest operating system? I can't find a software program that works!

due for a renewal, and i still feel more confortable having it than not, and now i am very unhappy with the mobistealth.

which one should i get?

eblaster
mobile spy
flexispy

blackberry is the device.

i have listed out what each do, but the fine print on what they dont is unclear, in my experience you find the bugs once its on the phone and i sont want to do that, what are the down sides to each?

chickadee, I am only familiar with eblaster and it is real easy to use. It gives a GPS location, chat conversations [texting], phone #s of calls that are in and out. It does not give you emails, though.

ok thanks i want the emails so i am down to 2! appreciate your help!

If using an iPhone you can read the backup file from iTunes and see just about everything, all deleted and undeleted calls, voicemails, text, internet browsing, gps, etc..

There are a number of free programs like iphone analyzer, iphone browser and others.

This helps give me some peace of mind.

For all of you looking to buy any of these things. But don't want to use a credit card. Go to WalMart and get a prepaid visa and just use a different mailing address. This way you can't be tracked

I use SpyBubble on my H's iphone. It did require me to jailbreak the phone.

Good intel, realitymom! And welcome to Marriage Builders! If you'd like, please visit our other forums and consider telling us your story!

I am using this one: http://www.sms-spy.org/ .

I would like to see if my husband is sending emails from a different email account (ie yahoo, gmail, etc). If he is getting into these sites with his phone will I be able to see that with a cell phone monitoring software? If so what one do you recommend. He has an IPhone. I need something that I could do quickly because I have limited access to his phone and would only have about five minutes.

Numbing, spybubble works on iphones and contains a feature that tracks emails.

spybubble