If you are thinking of going to a counsellor or psychotherapist, other than with MB ( or with MB principles), read this poem by Philip Larkin. It sums the whole process up in twelve lines and could save you a lot of time and money grin

This Be the Verse
By Philip Larkin

They **edit** you up, your mum and dad.
They may not mean to, but they do.
They fill you with the faults they had
And add some extra, just for you.

But they were **edit** up in their turn
By fools in old-style hats and coats,
Who half the time were soppy-stern
And half at one another�s throats.

Man hands on misery to man.
It deepens like a coastal shelf.
Get out as early as you can,
And don�t have any kids yourself.

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"In times of universal deceit, telling the truth is a revolutionary act" - George Orwell.