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I have been married twice - and in both marriages my husband has cheated on me. Devestated by the first marriage - I divorced because the incident was too much too handle (it was with his 14 year old step-sister). My now husband, only kissed the girl, but again she was 6 years younger than me. This happened a long time ago, but I am still working through it. It seems like every time he even looks at anybody, I obsess.
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Last edited by Ariel; 08/20/12 10:19 AM. Reason: The links in this post have been removed. Please do not put them back.
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Thanks for sharing but your column does not follow MB principles. Perhaps you should re-consider reading Dr. Harley's materials and you will learn to deal with your continued resentment that still occurs to this day.
I'm sure this is spam but if for some reason it is not, you could benefit from Dr. Harley's methods, he is much more qualified than you are to be dictating how to recover after an affair. Your article and recommendations are the typical advice which often leads to false recovery.
Last edited by alis; 08/20/12 10:21 AM.
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Brainymom, welcome to Marriage Builders. Are you familiar with Marriage Builders and the program for recovery after an affair?
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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