I've installed eblaster on WH's laptop and I monitor call/text records associated with his cell phone. However, what the heck to do about his activities throughout the day while at work? I have no idea what his password is to his work email and he rarely checks it from home. He does not have a work cell phone either.

I needed to get a hold of my husband earlier today, after the lunch hour, and was unable to reach him. Based on what he told me he should have been in his office. He claims he "must have never heard the phone ring" when I called him about 4-5 separate times. He also never responded to an email I sent him at work but claims he did.

At any rate, it appears he is lying to me about where he was this afternoon. His co-worker also seemed to be out of the office (I blocked my number and tried calling her more than once, she never answered). WH gave me some pretty flimsy excuses about his afternoon, to include the one about not hearing his desk phone ring.....which made me LOL.

FYI, I have exposed what little I know to WH's boss but she was of no help. She has been engaged in a very high profile affair for well over a year with the person who was once equivalent to the president of a company there. She's rarely at work and allows her employees to do whatever, seemingly anyway. It is my opinion her willingness to openly engage in an affair at work sends a huge message to those who work for her.

I don't know anyone else who works there and they work in a secure location. Even their parking lot is situated in such a way I wouldn't be able to sit there and take note of their comings/goings without WH noticing any of my cars, or me for that matter. He's generally pretty observant with that kind of thing anyway.

VAR? GPS on his phone? Or a PI? Or all of the above? I'm plan A'ing the h*ll out of him but I'm losing steam. I'm also sick of spending money on his bullcrap (monitoring him). The stuff I'm doing at home is getting info about his internet activities but it's not here where the communication is taking place.....I'm convinced it's the workplace.

I suggest a VAR in the car. The vets can give you advice about what location in it would be best.

I agree.

If you can afford the PI that may be your quickest way to get the goods.

Got the VAR, best place to put it would be...? I also purchased some velcro that's supposed to be stronger than the average. I've thought of placing the VAR under the drivers seat, attaching it to the underside of the seat using the velcro. However, still worried it will detach and then be noticed.

Thanks for your response.

Yep, would like to hire a PI and used the state's licensing website to develop a list of PI's in my area. I'm going to start calling next week to get costs, etc, after the holiday. I want to call from work so my husband doesn't wonder, etc.

Thanks for the input.....I find myself feeling pretty alone and it helps to get even this type of info. I appreciate it.