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This is a radio show I listen to in the mornings. Sometimes I have disagreed with them (like when Bert's wife didn't want to give up her OS friend that Bert didn't like, and he decided to be cool with that), but this story is delicious in a karma-bus kind of way. Beep-beep! Enjoy! http://thebertshow.com/what-happens-if-youre-happily-married-and-then-you-meet-your-soulmate/
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Lol. Someone needs their mouth washed out with soap. I find it strange that he's happily married and then finds his soul mate. I guess he wasn't really happily married then.
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My ex wife is living with one of her affair partners/ soulmates.
Remember the Virginia governor that said he was going hiking and went to Argentina to see his affair partner? He told the
Media after getting caught that she was his soulmate
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Good grief, I really wonder about adults who believe in that soulmate nonsense. 
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Lol. Someone needs their mouth washed out with soap. I find it strange that he's happily married and then finds his soul mate. I guess he wasn't really happily married then. Oh, but he just made a BAD DECISION in marrying his wife. You just don't understand! wahwahwahhhmbulance, please. He was secure enough in his marriage to think his wife would be okay with him 'trying out' his 'soulmate'. He didn't tell her he was leaving her. He said, hey, hon, I met this girl...bwahaha. Classic FOG.
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Good grief, I really wonder about adults who believe in that soulmate nonsense. Until I found this website I always thought soulmate was something Satan put in his morning coffee.
Every man I meet is in some way my superior; and in that I can learn of him.
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there's so much crazy there that i can't believe i listened to the (almost) whole thing (some selected fast forwarding). and  at the OWHs saying "when i thought she was working late and you and she were at a hotel." ummm, wayward liars anyone? why did no one at the radio show pick that up? "we're not going to have sex." yeah, right! good on POSWHs BW kicking his bum out and filing for D. real loser, there. "i would be mentally cheating on her our whole M." crazy sam, alright. am overall disgusted at the whole "the M must not have been happy then" mentality.  so...did you email them the link to soulmate schmoopies?
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My ex wife is living with one of her affair partners/ soulmates.
Remember the Virginia governor that said he was going hiking and went to Argentina to see his affair partner? He told the
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It was unbelievable when he's talking about how OWH sent him that letter about ripping his life apart and he takes it as a green light...
ick, ick, ick!
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Until I found this website I always thought soulmate was something Satan put in his morning coffee. I think that's a great way to put it! Most recently, I don't think it's in the clips I posted, Bert said that marriage requires falling in love over and over again, because people change. Nether he or his wife are the same people they were 15 years ago when they got married. True dat! Marriage takes work! Also, the skuzzy cheating husband said if he can't get back with OW, he won't be with anyone. Thank you for that small favor to the single (and low-moral married) women of the world, [censored]!
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None of the radio personality know anything about affairs ... it is about boundaries people ... do not let a friend of opposite sex meet your needs. 
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am overall disgusted at the whole "the M must not have been happy then" mentality. I'm sure it was pretty unhappy for the VICTIM of the affair, the faithful spouse.
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