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I was watching a tv show called Trisha today.
Her guest was a male stripper and his girlfriend.
He claimed that he doesn't cheat on her.
Part of the show is conducting a lie detector test.
They tested this male stripper and most of his statements were lies.
I was shocked someone would go on national television and try to beat a lie detector test
But it can be an example of a wayward attitude; this man lied and lied to a national audience.
Reminds me of Bill Clinton saying "I never had sex with that woman"
Basic message is NEVER believe anything that comes out of a waywards mouth.
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Basic message is NEVER believe anything that comes out of a waywards mouth. AMEN!
BS(me)
FWH
M '91
DS x 3
Don’t let anyone capture you with empty philosophies and high-sounding nonsense that come from human thinking and from the spiritual powers of this world, rather than from Christ.
Col. 2:8 (NLT)
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If anyone would know, it is my beautiful Lgtex1...(see post above)
I was such an idiot. 2 Polys and all the while leading up to both exams, I tried to hide the truth.
If you suspect your W is not coming clean on the issues, don't request a poly, tell them they can schedule it, or you are going to. Then see the response you get.
If you are willing to fight for your marriage, a poly, and your methodical approach to it, are perhaps the only ways to get all you want to know out in the open. Then you can start on a clean slate and Build your Marriage.
I am so fortunate and blessed that is what Legtx1 chose to do.
FWH 42 (me)
BW 43
M 20yrs
3 DS 14, 17, 18
As for God his way is perfect, the word of the Lord is flawless. He is a shield to all who take refuge in him.~Proverbs 18:30
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Beating a poly is something that government spy agencies invest considerable time and resources into for their top secret agents. Unless you're married to a CIA double agent, chances are your WS isn't going to beat a poly!
Civil-liberties defence lawyers go to great efforts to avoid polys being admitted as evidence, because it makes it much harder for them to defend a client that's lying.
Polys work especially well when someone is lying about something that would be a cause of great emotional distress if exposed. A typical WS is probably more concerned about their A being exposed than a double agent is about being imprisoned and tortured...
BH (me), age 30. Plan D final 1/1/13
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