She means to ask the mods to combine your threads so the posters can follow your whole story.

Well I am about to embark on this as well.. I really don't want to celebrate our anniversary for several reason... First I don't know what we are celebrating.. Making it one more year.. It isn't 18 years of marriage .. It was 16 since he didn't acknowledge it last year either.. Here's the kicker. Our wedding anniversary is Dec 3. He met her that time.. So it's only reminds me of when they started it all. Dday was March 8 though i gound the condom severals days before... yes i am stupid didnt believe his story about giving to our daughter gof homecoming... [censored]. And our second anniversary since we had a celebration for family here which was a month after DDay... So as we approach the day I get more upset, angrier and distraught.
He wasn't to celebrate both because we have made it dispite of his affair .. I'm stool not swallowing it. Tonight our daughter was out of town.. He ends up following asleep even though I mentioned how. We haven't been intimate... Oh well Getinge coser to how it was befo re except i dont tale it.