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Originally Posted by brandyt
Oh just thought of something! Can you look up people on Facebook by their email?
Yes. Try start a message and enter the email address and it should pull the facebook name.


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Yes, it's plan be I don't think I can go through with ...

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Originally Posted by BrainHurts
Originally Posted by brandyt
Oh just thought of something! Can you look up people on Facebook by their email?
Yes. Try start a message and enter the email address and it should pull the facebook name.

Okay, going to try now!

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Originally Posted by brandyt
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Oh just thought of something! Can you look up people on Facebook by their email?
Yes. Try start a message and enter the email address and it should pull the facebook name.

Okay, going to try now!

She doesn't use that email for Facebook. But going to Google it!

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Originally Posted by brandyt
Yes, it's plan be I don't think I can go through with ...
Don't worry about that now. Do Plan A and keep posting and from your WH's actions will tell us whether you need to enter Plan B.

You're doing awesome and Dr. H says women should only Plan A for 3 weeks and if the affair doesn't end then Plan B.

How are you sleeping and eating and taking care of yourself?

A very important part of Plan A is self care. Do you have a keylogger on your computer? GPS on his phone and spyware on his phone?

The OW is a drug to your WH and affairs are like addictions. You must take away his drug.


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Originally Posted by BrainHurts
Originally Posted by brandyt
Yes, it's plan be I don't think I can go through with ...
Don't worry about that now. Do Plan A and keep posting and from your WH's actions will tell us whether you need to enter Plan B.

You're doing awesome and Dr. H says women should only Plan A for 3 weeks and if the affair doesn't end then Plan B.

How are you sleeping and eating and taking care of yourself?

A very important part of Plan A is self care. Do you have a keylogger on your computer? GPS on his phone and spyware on his phone?

The OW is a drug to your WH and affairs are like addictions. You must take away his drug.


For a long while I for depressed Ans looked awful. Still. Depressed but doing myself up every day and trying to be as cheerful as possible. Bought 6 new tops today while we were shopping together. Going to lay IR on thick for plan a. Also told him I was going to start working on my jewelry business again.


How do I do GPS and spyware on his phone without him knowing?

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Originally Posted by brandyt
Originally Posted by BrainHurts
Originally Posted by brandyt
Yes, it's plan be I don't think I can go through with ...
Don't worry about that now. Do Plan A and keep posting and from your WH's actions will tell us whether you need to enter Plan B.

You're doing awesome and Dr. H says women should only Plan A for 3 weeks and if the affair doesn't end then Plan B.

How are you sleeping and eating and taking care of yourself?

A very important part of Plan A is self care. Do you have a keylogger on your computer? GPS on his phone and spyware on his phone?

The OW is a drug to your WH and affairs are like addictions. You must take away his drug.


For a long while I for depressed Ans looked awful. Still. Depressed but doing myself up every day and trying to be as cheerful as possible. Bought 6 new tops today while we were shopping together. Going to lay IR on thick for plan a. Also told him I was going to start working on my jewelry business again.


How do I do GPS and spyware on his phone without him knowing?
Good, keep up your Plan A.


When he is asleep can you get his phone and install it? It usually doesn't take that long.


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Oh that's not the problem. He is extremely phone Davey. He wont be able to tell its on there?

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Originally Posted by brandyt
Savey
No, not at all. It runs in the background undetected and sends you email reports.

What kind of phone does he have?


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A blackberry 9700

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Originally Posted by brandyt
A blackberry 9700
Try flexspy.

Here Flexspy


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Thank you for spending so much time on me!

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Thank you for spending so much time on me!
No problem. smile


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Today is going great so far with plan a. In fact I am laying it on so hard that it is making him nervous! Lol. I caught him checking MY phone!! Haha! Still loooking for ways to expose her......

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Oh, and I have finally found her Facebook only to hit a brick wall. It's set to private and her friends aren't listed. What else can I do with it?

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Originally Posted by brandyt
Oh, and I have finally found her Facebook only to hit a brick wall. It's set to private and her friends aren't listed. What else can I do with it?
Try this.
Facebook:A Backdoor to see more info


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Do you know if she plays any games? You can set up a dummy account and try to add her that way-- start playing a couple games and try to friend her, so she'll think it's just some random person.


One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger

I will not spend my life this way.
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I really don't know much about her online life other than she used the dating site. The only thing that is visible in her page is her name, and one old family photo. I will look to see if it is tagged.

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I really don't know much about her online life other than she used the dating site. The only thing that is visible in her page is her name, and one old family photo. I had an idea but want to run it by you all. I have access to who's Facebook. Should I send her a friend request from him?

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