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30 years ago today My wife and I got married.
Ups and downs aplenty in 30 years but more up than down.
Dark days 7 years ago in 2005 when I discovered her affair. Years since then mostly good, filled with love. Empty nesters now as well as the last 2 of our kids moved out of home this year.
We would have been dead without Dr Harley. If you learn and apply the methods and principles here you can recover from anything. There is always hope.
Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW)
D-Day August 2005
Married 11/1982 3 Sons 27,25,23
Empty Nesters.
Fully Recovered.
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Congratulations to you and MrsKahuna!
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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30 years ago today My wife and I got married.
Ups and downs aplenty in 30 years but more up than down.
Dark days 7 years ago in 2005 when I discovered her affair. Years since then mostly good, filled with love. Empty nesters now as well as the last 2 of our kids moved out of home this year.
We would have been dead without Dr Harley. If you learn and apply the methods and principles here you can recover from anything. There is always hope. Congratulations and thanks for being around and helping. Enjoy the next 30. 
FWW/BW (me)
WH
2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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Wow, congratulations, you guys!
If you are serious about saving your marriage, you can't get it all on this forum. You've got to listen to the Marriage Builders Radio show, every day. Install the app! Married to my radiant trophy wife, Prisca, 19 years. Father of 8. Attended Marriage Builders weekend in May 2010 If your wife is not on board with MB, some of my posts to other men might help you.
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Congratulations to you both! Enjoy your day together.
AM
BW - 70
WH - 65
M - 35 years
D-day - 17 Apr 08
H broke contact 11/1/09
Back in love after the worst thing that every happened to us.
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Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW)
D-Day August 2005
Married 11/1982 3 Sons 27,25,23
Empty Nesters.
Fully Recovered.
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If you learn and apply the methods and principles here you can recover from anything. There is always hope. Quoted for TRUTH! Congrats you two! Way to go! Keep up the good work and don't forget to pay it forward! 
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Mazel Tov, that is so awesome. Truly blessed by G-d!!!
BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
Started over 7-09
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Always great to know what is possible... You are an inspiration...
Me: BW, 57 fWH: 63 (Taffy1) Serial cheater
Presently on the Recovery Road, in the Online program.
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Congratulations Mr. and Mrs. Big K!
Always loved your posts here.
Congratulations on moving forward in your life!
Blessings to you and lovely wife.
Agree that MB is a MUST for full recovery.
Love in Christ,
Miss M
me: FBS
H: FWS
Fully recovered
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Congrats BigK!
Best wishes for many more love-filled years.
Happily married to HerPapaBear
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A smooth sea never made a skilled mariner.
~ English proverb Neak's Story
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WTG BigK & MrsK!!!!! Congratulations and wishing you many many more happy years to come. Another MB SUCCESS Story!!
Dday- Feb 1998
Recovered!!
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Congrats to you and the Mrs., BK!
BW - me
exWH - serial cheater
2 awesome kids
Divorced 12/2011
Many a good man has failed because he had a wishbone where his backbone should have been.
We gain strength, and courage, and confidence by each experience in which we really stop to look fear in the face... we must do that which we think we cannot.
--------Eleanor Roosevelt
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I looked away and missed your update.
Congratulations and best wishes for a bright & loving future together.
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What would you do if you were not afraid?
"Fear is the little death. Fear is the mind-killer" Frank Herbert.
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Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW)
D-Day August 2005
Married 11/1982 3 Sons 27,25,23
Empty Nesters.
Fully Recovered.
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