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Do you think it will do anything if her mind is made up?
I wish I could turn back time....
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Do you think it will do anything if her mind is made up? You don't know unless you try.
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2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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Well, I told her I wouldn't agree to a disalusion. I said I wasn't giving up on us yet. She didn't say much . I think we're going to try to get me in my own place. I gave her the letter. We'll see I guess
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Well, I told her I wouldn't agree to a disalusion. I said I wasn't giving up on us yet. She didn't say much . I think we're going to try to get me in my own place. I gave her the letter. We'll see I guess Well I say that's a good thing that she didn't tell you that she was going forward anyway. Good job bnmt. Keep making those deposits.
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Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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I wish I could turn back time....
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Have you read them all? There are a total of four.
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Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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I wish I could turn back time....
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FWW/BW (me)
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2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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Oh yes, I think I've read the entire site.
She invited me to stop back over. Said she understood how I felt but there was too much damage. She can't come back from it. God I hope she's wrong. I've got to learn to stay away on positive notes.
I wish I could turn back time....
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Oh yes, I think I've read the entire site.
She invited me to stop back over. Said she understood how I felt but there was too much damage. She can't come back from it. God I hope she's wrong. I've got to learn to stay away on positive notes. Go and look your best and smell your best. Be upbeat and happy. Make sure she has good memories of you.
FWW/BW (me)
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2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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Feeling very hopeless. I hope Dr Harley has good advice tomorrow
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There is always hope and Dr Harley has told several husbands to plan A for years to win their wives back.
This is not a short term project. It's long term.
Even if she files for divorce, that doesn't necessarily mean its over. He has recommended husbands plan A after divorce.
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you did great today!! Hang in there. Keep loving her. Keep making the deposits!!! Praying for you.
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I wish I could turn back time....
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I heard you on today's show.
Just keep Plan A!
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Yea keep up the plan A. No AO or LB
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Any suggestions for Christmas presents for my wife?
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What was she spending money on that she liked but you considered wasteful?
Just the general area and pick a present idea from there.
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She just had me sign a separation agreement. God please tell me there's still hope
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FWW/BW (me)
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2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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