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I've been working on my marriage for months. My wife told me she wants a divorce. She moved out of the bedroom. We can't afford a divorce. I want to save my marriage. She's been having an EA for months. I get all the standard lines. I'm not in love with you,he's my soul mate. all the crap thats breaking my heart. This is tearing my family apart. My kids know everything and are acting out. She's moved in and out of the bedroom 6 times. For a very long time there was no sex. She came to me and said. I DON'T LOVE YOU BUT WE'RE BOTH FRUSTRATED. THEN ASKED IF I WANT TO HAVE SEX. JUST TO RELIEVE THE SEXUAL FRUSTRATION. She won't break contact with OM. I don't know what to do. I want to make love to her but she only wants it for the physical part. No emotion. I don't know if I can do that without emotion. I love her so much. I need help.
PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I've been working on my marriage for months. My wife told me she wants a divorce. She moved out of the bedroom. We can't afford a divorce. I want to save my marriage. She's been having an EA for months. I get all the standard lines. I'm not in love with you,he's my soul mate. all the crap thats breaking my heart. This is tearing my family apart. My kids know everything and are acting out. She's moved in and out of the bedroom 6 times. For a very long time there was no sex. She came to me and said. I DON'T LOVE YOU BUT WE'RE BOTH FRUSTRATED. THEN ASKED IF I WANT TO HAVE SEX. JUST TO RELIEVE THE SEXUAL FRUSTRATION. She won't break contact with OM. I don't know what to do. I want to make love to her but she only wants it for the physical part. No emotion. I don't know if I can do that without emotion. I love her so much. I need help.
PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You really should post this to your existing thread in the Affairs forum. Click on your own name, then "view posts", and your first thread will appear. Copy and paste this post to that thread. Did you take any advice from that thread? Did you expose the affair? What have you been doing since June to fight this affair?
BW
Married 1989
His PA 2003-2006
2 kids.
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I've been working on my marriage for months. My wife told me she wants a divorce. She moved out of the bedroom. We can't afford a divorce. I want to save my marriage. She's been having an EA for months. I get all the standard lines. I'm not in love with you,he's my soul mate. all the crap thats breaking my heart. This is tearing my family apart. My kids know everything and are acting out. She's moved in and out of the bedroom 6 times. For a very long time there was no sex. She came to me and said. I DON'T LOVE YOU BUT WE'RE BOTH FRUSTRATED. THEN ASKED IF I WANT TO HAVE SEX. JUST TO RELIEVE THE SEXUAL FRUSTRATION. She won't break contact with OM. I don't know what to do. I want to make love to her but she only wants it for the physical part. No emotion. I don't know if I can do that without emotion. I love her so much. I need help.
PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You really should post this to your existing thread in the Affairs forum. Click on your own name, then "view posts", and your first thread will appear. Copy and paste this post to that thread. Did you take any advice from that thread? Did you expose the affair? What have you been doing since June to fight this affair? What MB plans have you followed? Have you exposed? Exposure 101
FWW/BW (me)
WH
2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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Everyone knows about it. But it hasen't made a differance.
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Everyone knows about it. But it hasen't made a differance. Who did you all expose to exactly? Who did you expose to on OM's side?
FWW/BW (me)
WH
2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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