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May all of you... no matter your situation right now... have a truly loving and safe Christmas.

For the so many new MBers know that you cannot change ANYONE however YOU can change yourself. What may seem insurmountable right now will in time and as your knowledge grows here at MB will no longer be so.

No one can promise you that your marriage will recover and prosper unless your spouse really buys into MB and that you really want to recover as well... however we can promise that if you follow MB YOU will recover.

I learnt and I am still learning here ... Aussie and I are so happy. Life as challenging as it can be is fun.

My son is home.. Aussie is home... our youngest is growing like a weed and thinks I am the Encyclopaedia Britannia... well the extremely limited version ... DD and Son in law will be home in the new year.

While we have as many challengers like anyone else we also have so many blessings. God has been kind to us.

I have to go ring my daughter now with the time zone differences.

May you all again have a merry Christmas and a kinder year ahead.


Life may feel as if you are constantly getting kicked on a daily basis, living is about picking yourself up each day and going on and on and on regardless.

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Merry Christmas, aussieswife!


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

Exposure 101


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Merry Christmas to you and yours, aw!


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His PA 2003-2006
2 kids.
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Merry Christmas. santa002


FWW/BW (me)
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Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.



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Thank you, and Merry Christmas to you and all! Our blessings are certainly great.


Me, BS: 35
WxH: 36 "HAM" Hearts a mess
6yo DS (with WxH), 9 and 12yo DDs from first marriage
Discovered DH's affair in June, 2011
"I'm not having an affair, you're crazy." major gaslighting
Served with divorce papers on 2/3/12
Divorce final 7/29/2013
Living day by day, counting my blessings, loving my children
Personal Recovery well underway!
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Merry Christmas to everyone


One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger

I will not spend my life this way.
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Merry Christmas!


What would you do if you were not afraid?

"Fear is the little death. Fear is the mind-killer" Frank Herbert.

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Merry Christmas to all.


BW(Me)aka Scotty:37
DSx2: 10,12
DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09
Plan B Dec18/09
Personal R in works
Scotty's THING laugh
Newly Betrayed click here


Praying for walls and doors. Thanx MM

Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.
? Maya Angelou

PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION

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Merry Christmas, aussieswife,and all my old MB friends!



Happily married to HerPapaBear




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