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Speaking of vultures. Here's an excellent thread started by indie on this very topic. VULTURES
FWW/BW (me)
WH
2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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Hey guys just a little update had a lovely new year with my daughter. Today I took D shopping and I had lunch out. Came home and had a nice hot bath and facemask whilst my little girl was asleep.
I'm feeling very positive about the future I have been thinking about changing careers for a while now and want to start studying again come September.
My thoughts towards h are changing I feel quite disgusted by him now with what has happened but mainly towards how he treated me after I found out about his a and his conduct towards me. Now I don't know if I could ever move past how he treated me at such a vulnerable time he didnt just walk out on me he walked out on our daughter too.
I still love him but I don't think I'm in love with him anymore. I used to pray every day that he would wake up and realise what he has done and come back to us and now I'm not sure that I actually want him back and think I deserve someone who will stick by me through good times and bad and who would never dream of treating me the way he has.
Today I actually haven't got sad once and I haven't prayed for him back either. I don't feel so desperate anymore.
I put on some music earlier and was dancing and singing with d and I felt so so happy I really did. Plus I treated myself to some lovely new underwear! I was literally walking around the shopping centre really smiling and this is the first day I can literally say I have felt like this.
I really want to thank you guys for helping me so far. It's so touching that complete strangers can care so much!
Hope everyone has a great new year. Myself included x
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Happy new year to you too, Hoping.
I know you have a bit of a tough time ahead, but the good days begin early as you are already experiencing.
No matter what we go through, the human spirit always finds time to laugh and be grateful.
Reach out whenever you need support from us; people who have BTDT.
What would you do if you were not afraid?
"Fear is the little death. Fear is the mind-killer" Frank Herbert.
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Happy new year to you too, Hoping.
I know you have a bit of a tough time ahead, but the good days begin early as you are already experiencing.
No matter what we go through, the human spirit always finds time to laugh and be grateful.
Reach out whenever you need support from us; people who have BTDT. Thank you! I know I'm going to still have up and down days but in just going to take each day as it comes. I will post from time to time to check in and if I need any support 
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