Because I have told him before that divorce is better than staying together. Now that if I write that plan b letter, his lawyer may indicate that I am unsound? Not stable in making decision?
I don know what his lawyer is up to by using that apology letter.

X2.

I don't see how a judge would side with a cheating husband. Or a wife's letter professing het love and establishing personal boundaries can hurt her.

Amazing, my lawyer would laugh at that. Why isn't yours??

Or are you just repeating to us a wayward'd foggy nonsense?

I wouldn't give that any weight.

Because he had cheated me in the first place after the d day, he say let me think about our marriage, go counseling, take some time alone and in the mean time he will take care of the baby.
So I listen to this [censored], and after 2 weeks I said patch, his true colour immediately show. He didn't mean to let me think about it. He just want the baby. So that when we fight, the judge will take into consideration that he had no problem taking care of the baby for a period of time And Most importantly i have allow that. So the judge will most likely remain that situation. Which is he will get the guardianship.

This is how despicable he is. Plan all this.

Regarding the threaten message, he himself is a police officer. So he know the law and seen a lot of this type of domestic cases. He make SMS message regarding my bro and sis in law. 'Will not let them off, will find them after we go seperation' etc.
If I lodge a complaint on him, I think his career will be gone or least black mark forever.
I don know what to do.
Now, I only feel hatred to him and the ow.

Regarding ow, I will definitely expose her deed to everybody. This is not an education officer expected behaviour. If I don expose her, I don know how many victims like me will suffer. Something is wrong with her character.

I really don know whether to write a plan b letter. If he come back, and I feel that I don want this marriage. Isn't it weird?
Till now, I feel sad but I also relieve that I don need to guess his action anymore.. My feeling is all over the place.