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Joined: Jan 2013
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Joined: Jan 2013
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I am 30 yr old guy.
have dated a lady (28) for almost 7 yrs (from the uni)
we planned getting maried last ye but it didnot come on.
currently she is out of the country and hope to come next month so we can start planing about marrying.
i am having a melt down and want to quit the relationship but i know it would hurt her more and our friends and family much.
my reasons are:
1) we are both AS (sickling )
though initially we overlooked it , i think we should not
2)i want to continue my career (do my phd, 3-4 yrs) before settling
3) we are argue and i think if i get somebody youger than me say 7 yrs, it would be better for me.
i dont know how to go abt it or what to do. pls help pls.
thanks
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Joined: Nov 2011
Posts: 11,239
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Joined: Nov 2011
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You just need to man up and break up with her.
Be polite but firm
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Joined: Apr 2011
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You argue because you are a renter ...
READ & STUDY Buyers, Renters, and Freeloaders.
A younger woman won't fix you ... you can only fix you.
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