DR. Evil here<P>I hope that everyone knows that these are fantasies and if anyone starts talking about uzi's and stuff, we have to stop. Okay? Just for fun, that's all.<P>so...How about I hope that her life of deceit and the trail of destroyed lives that she lives are her true karma. I just know that she will probably end up like her mom, and be a bitter alcoholic who does and always has really hated men.<P>There is one image that I have trouble with. It was the last time that I saw her at the airport. All of a sudden as my H, me and a friend were leaving the airport after seeing the friends son off on a trip, she was walking our way and carrying a baby. A neice or nephew I guess. Anyway, the come and get it look that she gave to my H was so blatant and disrespectful of me. It happened so fast that all I really saw was her face and she let him know that she was all about getting with him. And she looked so good. I ran. I don't know why. It had been prob. 12 years since the initial affair, but I ran. I wish I had stopped in my tracks and asked her what the hell she thought she was doing and called her out. Why did I run? That has haunted me forever. My H chased me and comforted me, but it will haunt me forever. It was so disrespectful to me. I wish I had told her to put the baby down or give it to whomever it belonged to and just whipped her [censored] good.<P>My H has said since that I should have done that. Why did I run?

Ubu,<BR> I understand the run thing, it's got something to do with fight or flight instints. I do it all the time myself, as a matter of fact thanking about it my mom does too. If something hurts us, I mean causes us a great deal of pain, not likre a splinter or something, we run. It matters not if the pain is physical or emotional, we try or dead leval best to get away. So maybe thats it , sounds like it to me. Seeing her caused you such distress that you did what your body said to do which was get away fropm this painful object asap. Make sense ? <P> <P>------------------<BR>Just call me - Deb<BR>------------------------<BR>The only day I can do anything about is today, yesterday is gone, tomorrow is not yet mine.<P>

Yes, Deb, it makes sense and I have thought of that, but it still haunts me and will until my last breath. I had the perfect opportunity to let her have it, and maybe the events of last summer would not have happened. One thing that I know for sure is never let the OW play you. Do not let her cry to you and lose respect for you. She will go full force then. I should have kicked her [censored].

If I didn't want him back wouldn't it be fun to woo him away from the other woman - have him tell her he chose me and come back only to hear - sorry, I changed my mind - I don't really want you after all.

oooooooohhhh, after i read what latrice said, i couldn't read anymore. OUCH. I wish she could feel like this X100, though.<BR>Dr. Evil was in me for a moment a couple weeks ago, however, and he came out through my typing fingers: OW is out of work (My H left his job, and his department fell apart, it was the second job he had hired her at), i see her online all the time, and i IM'd her, <BR>"Can't get a job without laying the boss?"<BR>ok, that was mean, but it sure felt good at the time, and she is STILL out of work. heheheheheh.

horaah!! There should never be prosperity out of another's pain.