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Angel, I would carefully read my Exposure 101 thread and plan to expose the affair. But first go set up a webpage and upload your evidence. When you send out exposure emails you can send a link to the evidence. It is very easy to set up a webpage. Go read rainysweet's post on my exposure thread.
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Sorry it took so long to write back. Ive been going through some awlful things lately. My WS is still denying everything. He told me once again the naked pics were sent to him by mistake. That he is not sleeping with that young girl. The OW came to me crying saying she did not ssleep with my WS. She told me that she has too much respect for me. I told her to stop fake crying and to leave my home. My WS and her are working my nerves right now.
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At this point and time I really dont know what to do. I am losing so much weight. I dont think I can go on being this way. I really need to fiqure this mess out
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They keep denying the affair My WS said the pics were sent to him by mistake. The he wouldnt mess with a young girl
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Do you have any other evidence? Texts, emails, phone records??? You should probably gather as much evidence as you can now.
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If he is denying it, then would he be willing to take a polygraph? Surely an innocent man would want to prove his innocence. Tell him you want him to take one for your mental and physical health.
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I have a letter but no name is on it. My friend seen them at Wal Mart but he told me he ran into her when he went n the store. The thing is when they r seen n a public place he always states he ran into her. Her BF has caught them at a KFC but of course he ran into her. I need more evidence
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Can you verify her handwriting with her bf? Who sends naked pics to someone by mistake?? Yeah, sure. Maybe a PI? I like the polygraph idea. Because of their denial I think you need to have as much evidence as possible.
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ok, didn't you post under another name on this board? I thought your story and writing style was very familiar. ARe you vivi? http://forum.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2459884&page=1
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Yes Her BF knows her handwriting very well. My point with the pics too. omg she put on a show that would win her an award. Saying to me you've known since I was 12 and u are the God Mother of my kids. My WS birthday was Jan 26th and a truck came to our home with a package with no name just saying Happy Birthday. Inside the box was Chocolate covered Strawberries. WS told me he did not know who sent them so I told since he didn't know I threw them n the garbage telling him "u cant be too careful with stuff like that" He just stood there with hs eyes when I toss them n the trash
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I used his truck this past weekend. I found a bottle of Viagra which he had filled on Jan 7th. The Dr gave hm 10 and there is 4 left as of today. Should I put them in plain site or throw them away
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"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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I believe you are correct Mel. Typing and story are familiar just got through reading the thread.
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Yes I have facebook. I have not had sex with WS since Dec 2012. I found the Viagra n his truck this past weekend which he had filled on Jan 7th. I did not know he was taking Viagra
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My husband is sllep with a 23 year old. We known her since the age of 12. She now has 3 kids n which r the godparents. I was very good to this girl. I treated this young woman like my daughter. My husband gave her BF a job so he could take care of the kids. They r denying the affair. I am 56 and my sp is 54. Even when i found naked pics of her on his laptop he claims she accidently sent them to him. At first I dismiss the affair wh her BF bought it to my attention. I just thought he was being jealous 4 no reason. she came to my crying saying its not true. I dont know what to do. Right now my heart hurts so bad. I am so depressed and my Dr said ive lost too much weight I wear a size 5 before I was a 9. we have been married since 1995 I need so much help right now Hi this is my 1st time being on this site. My husband has been cheating on me with a friend of the family. What is so sad is we have known this person since she was 12. She is 21 now and we are god-parents to her 3 kids. They have deny the affair. She sent naked pics of herself on the computer which he left up on his laptop telling me she sent them to him by mistake (they were for someone else) I knew she had a crush on him since she was a teenager I used to do anything for this girl. My husband is 51 years old and i am so upset behind this mess. I love my husband but right now I cant deal with this. Later I will go into more detail. Right now I am in total shock.
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My husband is sllep with a 23 year old. We known her since the age of 12. She now has 3 kids n which r the godparents. I was very good to this girl. I treated this young woman like my daughter. My husband gave her BF a job so he could take care of the kids. They r denying the affair. I am 56 and my sp is 54. Even when i found naked pics of her on his laptop he claims she accidently sent them to him. At first I dismiss the affair wh her BF bought it to my attention. I just thought he was being jealous 4 no reason. she came to my crying saying its not true. I dont know what to do. Right now my heart hurts so bad. I am so depressed and my Dr said ive lost too much weight I wear a size 5 before I was a 9. we have been married since 1995 I need so much help right now Hi this is my 1st time being on this site. My husband has been cheating on me with a friend of the family. What is so sad is we have known this person since she was 12. She is 21 now and we are god-parents to her 3 kids. They have deny the affair. She sent naked pics of herself on the computer which he left up on his laptop telling me she sent them to him by mistake (they were for someone else) I knew she had a crush on him since she was a teenager I used to do anything for this girl. My husband is 51 years old and i am so upset behind this mess. I love my husband but right now I cant deal with this. Later I will go into more detail. Right now I am in total shock.  Goodness the trolls are everywhere.
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My husband is sllep with a 23 year old. We known her since the age of 12. She now has 3 kids n which r the godparents. I was very good to this girl. I treated this young woman like my daughter. My husband gave her BF a job so he could take care of the kids. They r denying the affair. I am 56 and my sp is 54. Even when i found naked pics of her on his laptop he claims she accidently sent them to him. At first I dismiss the affair wh her BF bought it to my attention. I just thought he was being jealous 4 no reason. she came to my crying saying its not true. I dont know what to do. Right now my heart hurts so bad. I am so depressed and my Dr said ive lost too much weight I wear a size 5 before I was a 9. we have been married since 1995 I need so much help right now Hi this is my 1st time being on this site. My husband has been cheating on me with a friend of the family. What is so sad is we have known this person since she was 12. She is 21 now and we are god-parents to her 3 kids. They have deny the affair. She sent naked pics of herself on the computer which he left up on his laptop telling me she sent them to him by mistake (they were for someone else) I knew she had a crush on him since she was a teenager I used to do anything for this girl. My husband is 51 years old and i am so upset behind this mess. I love my husband but right now I cant deal with this. Later I will go into more detail. Right now I am in total shock. Goodness the trolls are everywhere. I can't think of any other possibility... What would be the purpsoe of coming back 2 YEARS later with the exact same sad story?
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Maybe she thinks the advice will be different? My best guess.
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Maybe it is Groundhog Day?
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