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Looking for sample letter to OW's H #2707295 02/19/13 09:55 AM
Joined: Sep 2012 Posts: 14 MO L LeanieMe Junior Member
LeanieMe Junior Member L Joined: Sep 2012 Posts: 14 MO	I found samples of broad exposure letters. I'm looking for a sample letter I can write to the husband of the OW, to share some details my WW husband shared with me over this weekend. Any one know of some samples like that? Me BW mid-40s EA/PA while engaged 20 yrs ago Him WH early-40s EA/PA twice in 2012 Married 19 Yrs DS 11 DS 8

Re: Looking for sample letter to OW's H LeanieMe #2707298 02/19/13 10:12 AM
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BrainHurts Member B Joined: Nov 2010 Posts: 20,479 Likes: 6 Moved to Uranus	Originally Posted by LeanieMe I found samples of broad exposure letters. I'm looking for a sample letter I can write to the husband of the OW, to share some details my WW husband shared with me over this weekend. Any one know of some samples like that? Spouse of affair partner- Give your full name, phone # and email address. Tell the other BS all about the affair, offer to share all evidence with him/her. Offer to follow up to ensure that contact is truly ended and ask the other BS to do the same. The other BS will be shocked when you tell him, so be sure and give your email address and phone # for follow up questions. ALWAYS GIVE THE OTHER BS YOUR WS'S PHONE # IN CASE HE/SHE WANTS TO CALL. You can post an example here, for feedback. FWW/BW (me) WH 2nd M for both Blended Family with 7 kids between us Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.

Re: Looking for sample letter to OW's H BrainHurts #2707300 02/19/13 10:21 AM
Joined: Sep 2012 Posts: 14 MO L LeanieMe Junior Member
LeanieMe Junior Member L Joined: Sep 2012 Posts: 14 MO	Thanks! The OW's husband already knows a little bit, but may not know how far along in the affair process they got. He has also confronted my husband, right after OW went back to him and was still texting my WH. Question, my WH told me about other affairs his OW had before him. I have no evidence of those, other than word of mouth. Should I mention that at all? Me BW mid-40s EA/PA while engaged 20 yrs ago Him WH early-40s EA/PA twice in 2012 Married 19 Yrs DS 11 DS 8

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