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Wayward fog is my delight to "translate". Here is some fun fog reading.

Male wayward fog. <~~~ The black is verbatim wayward fog. The red is me .... exposing the stupidity.


Female wayward fog:
"I'm not married" .... the essence of fog.

"Never take the word of a wayward" <~~~ They believe their own nonsense. It's incredibly funny when you look at how stupid they ALL sound.

FGM

Here is how the "comparison effect" begins. (most of the time it goes down like this... there are exceptions)

Anatomy of Adultery - How it starts.

Like the frog thrown into the pot of cool water and on low heat ..... everything seems fine at first. Then, slowly the water heats up, and before the frog knows what is what .... she's COOKED !

Frogs legs .... tastes like chicken.

Regarding enabling friends .... "Follow your heart." "You have to do what makes YOU happy." .... etc etc etc



My all time favorite response is this:

I nearly peed myself while reading your "male wayward fog" commentary.

They really are morons while in the fog.

FGM

I hesitate to throw too much MBism at your son all at the same time. There is an 'overload' that often happens.

I hope it's OK if I throw it your way, and you can decide when it would be beneficial to direct your son towards certain more 'advanced' and complex concepts.

Here is a thread that is tricky ...

Buyers Renters Freeloaders

I want YOU to understand that Plan A requires the betrayed spouse (your son) ignore his/her own emotional needs ..... temporarily of course. In MB-speak, this means keeping his "TAKER" under wraps. Which is why we so often recommend the BS do playful and enjoyable activities not trying to deal with adultery 24/7.
The TAKER will eventually be so protective of the BS's feelings, that there may be an unfortunate angry outburst. AO.
"You horrid person. How could you do this to us? Are you stupid and selfish or just an idiot?"
I won't go into the things I yelled at Mr Pep .... suffice to say .... the most awful things I have said to anyone, ever.

The GIVER is the cause of the AO. (angry outburst) Being The GIVER exhausts the BS in Plan A.
Without an understanding of this dynamic, misunderstanding will ensue.

For the BH, the pain is often so deep, and so primal .... it is very hard not to become angry.
For the BW, they are more likely to become depressed. Individual milage varies, of course.

Plan A asks the BS to ignore their own needs. The TAKER does not go down without a fight.

Ask me anything.