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Dear Dr. Harley,
I understand you to be the foremost expert on building loving
and supportive marriages. I have a situation which is fairly
unique and would like advice.
In the case in which a man is married to two women, can the
recommended fifteen hours of Undivided Attention be split
equally between them?
As an aside, regarding the picture of me, posing like Jove,
the thrower of lightning bolts, do you think my claim of not
knowing who took the picture will pass?
Looking forward to your help, I remain,
Sincerely (well, somewhat...),
Scott F.
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That's a good question. Does UA time get divided in polygamous marriages?
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Dear Dr. Harley,
I understand you to be the foremost expert on building loving
and supportive marriages. I have a situation which is fairly
unique and would like advice.
In the case in which a man is married to two women, can the
recommended fifteen hours of Undivided Attention be split
equally between them?
As an aside, regarding the picture of me, posing like Jove,
the thrower of lightning bolts, do you think my claim of not
knowing who took the picture will pass?
Looking forward to your help, I remain,
Sincerely (well, somewhat...),
Scott F. 
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That's a good question. Does UA time get divided in polygamous marriages? "There will be blood". Not to mention the time necessary to be mayor of his city. What a tool.
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What a tool.
That's an insult to all sorts of tools - unless you envisioned a toilet plunger!
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As an aside, regarding the picture of me, posing like Jove,
the thrower of lightning bolts, do you think my claim of not
knowing who took the picture will pass? Classic NG-ism.
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As an aside, regarding the picture of me, posing like Jove,
the thrower of lightning bolts, do you think my claim of not
knowing who took the picture will pass? Hey now...it could have been anyone given the close range...he was just too busy posing to notice lol. I don't know how W#2 would get alimony though. That doesn't seem to make sense. Hallmark should make cards for these special moments!!
BW - me
exWH - serial cheater
2 awesome kids
Divorced 12/2011
Many a good man has failed because he had a wishbone where his backbone should have been.
We gain strength, and courage, and confidence by each experience in which we really stop to look fear in the face... we must do that which we think we cannot.
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One of his FOUR children perhaps? "Daddy, take off your shirt and show your tats and pose for me. Okay Daddy?"
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Dear Dr. Harley,
I understand you to be the foremost expert on building loving
and supportive marriages. I have a situation which is fairly
unique and would like advice.
In the case in which a man is married to two women, can the
recommended fifteen hours of Undivided Attention be split
equally between them?
As an aside, regarding the picture of me, posing like Jove,
the thrower of lightning bolts, do you think my claim of not
knowing who took the picture will pass?
Looking forward to your help, I remain,
Sincerely (well, somewhat...),
Scott F. No, NG. 15 hours would NOT be divided equally amongst two wives. Nor would it be acceptable if you had 3 wives to only give each one 5 hours a week. Each one must get the MINIMUM of the full 15 hours each week, while you also meet their needs for; FS, DS, FC. Hope this helps.
"An expert is a person who has made all the mistakes that can be made in a very narrow field." - Niels Bohr
"Smart people believe weird things because they are skilled at defending beliefs they arrived at for non-smart reasons." - Michael Shermer
"Fair speech may hide a foul heart." - Samwise Gamgee LOTR
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Dear Dr. Harley,
I understand you to be the foremost expert on building loving
and supportive marriages. I have a situation which is fairly
unique and would like advice.
In the case in which a man is married to two women, can the
recommended fifteen hours of Undivided Attention be split
equally between them?
As an aside, regarding the picture of me, posing like Jove,
the thrower of lightning bolts, do you think my claim of not
knowing who took the picture will pass?
Looking forward to your help, I remain,
Sincerely (well, somewhat...),
Scott F. NG, you are a bad, bad boy
D-Day 2-10-2009
Fully Recovered and Better Than Ever!
Thank you Marriage Builders!
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