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I've come to realize that throughout our dating and marriage, I have always felt rejected by husband. And no matter how I try to tell him about it, I'm always the one with the problem. Basically their my feelings, or issues, so I Have to Deal with it. I choose how I feel. He didn't make me feel this way.
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Hi Megan, welcome to Marriage Builders. Please take the time to read this article and come back with any questions: How to Create Your Own Plan to Resolve Conflicts and Restore Love to Your Marriage How long married? Any kids? Did you live together before marriage? Any affairs?
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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I choose how I feel. He didn't make me feel this way. Actually, Dr Harley would probably disagree with you here. How you feel about your H is dependent on how he treats you. Have you familiarized yourself with The Love Bank concept? LINK to Basic Concept *love bank*
Last edited by Pepperband; 03/08/13 01:36 PM.
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Welcome to MB Megan. This site really can help. be truthful and ask for clarity on things you dont fully understand.
We can guide you. Feelings follow actions and that is the mantra around here. Listen to the vets they will not steer you wrong. Sometimes you may hear things you dont like .. but thats all part of the process. Dont be discouraged.. stick with it .. vent .. and read all you can.
MNG
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I've come to realize that throughout our dating and marriage, I have always felt rejected by husband. And no matter how I try to tell him about it, I'm always the one with the problem. Basically their my feelings, or issues, so I Have to Deal with it. I choose how I feel. He didn't make me feel this way. Have you been assaulting your husband?
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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MD
happily married to and in love with DH
3 children out of the house, 2 more to go
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I now read the posts of your hushand also. Could you be more specific? How does he reject your feelings?
MD
happily married to and in love with DH
3 children out of the house, 2 more to go
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