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I have cut off all communication with my wife, she is staying at her boyfriends house shes admitted a few days ago she slept with him. She reactivated her Facebook and deleted me and all the pictures except the ones of her sisters, dad, mom. I copied all her friends to a word doc, and got all the friends of the guy she's having an affair with, so now am I safe to go to the forms and start sending?
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I have cut off all communication with my wife, she is staying at her boyfriends house shes admitted a few days ago she slept with him. She reactivated her Facebook and deleted me and all the pictures except the ones of her sisters, dad, mom. I copied all her friends to a word doc, and got all the friends of the guy she's having an affair with, so now am I safe to go to the forms and start sending? Are you talking about exposure?
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Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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safe to send messages to both of their facebook friends. When she came back from Texas on Sunday she immediately said she is not staying under the same roof is Me, gathered up her bed a dresser and all of her clothes and proceeded to move them out. What she did not know is while she was in Texas I bought a new car, so I followed them and the house they ended up stopping at was the house of the guy she's having the affair with. since talking to her since she's been back and moved into the other house, she is said when she's going home she's referring to the other house, so I change the lockson our house. I know she can still get in if she breaks a window, but I don't think she would do that. So now I see she reactivated her facebook this morning and deleted me as well as deleted all her pictures except for the ones of her, and her sisters. so back to my initial question, you think now is the right time to send out the mass messages to their friends about the affair?
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I also forgot to mention, she finally admitted that she did have sex with a guy , as well as told him that she loves him on at least one occasion. I went in yesterday and took her off my insurance for the vehicles and she is on her own policy now, only due to the fact that I had to see him driving our new vehicle coming from the bar with her in the passenger seat. I did not want him to get in a wreck and my insurance premiums going up because of that.
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safe to send messages to both of their facebook friends. When she came back from Texas on Sunday she immediately said she is not staying under the same roof is Me, gathered up her bed a dresser and all of her clothes and proceeded to move them out. What she did not know is while she was in Texas I bought a new car, so I followed them and the house they ended up stopping at was the house of the guy she's having the affair with. since talking to her since she's been back and moved into the other house, she is said when she's going home she's referring to the other house, so I change the lockson our house. I know she can still get in if she breaks a window, but I don't think she would do that. So now I see she reactivated her facebook this morning and deleted me as well as deleted all her pictures except for the ones of her, and her sisters. so back to my initial question, you think now is the right time to send out the mass messages to their friends about the affair? Yes you need to expose. Who is on your exposure list?
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Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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Well done, get moving on exposure. Nuclear style. TODAY!
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Besides her friends, her grandma that she's been getting close to lately, her sisters, as well as co workers from both her jobs, and tons of mutual friends of ours. She only has 110 friends which some are my family members, he has 320 ish. ...use one of the forms from this site correct, and is it OK to add little things about lying, or just stick to the form itself?...as far as e-mail, I only have a couple people but I think the majority of the FB friends can do the job
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Go with the template or post what u want to send before sending it out. We can look it over for you
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Besides her friends, her grandma that she's been getting close to lately, her sisters, as well as co workers from both her jobs, and tons of mutual friends of ours. She only has 110 friends which some are my family members, he has 320 ish. ...use one of the forms from this site correct, and is it OK to add little things about lying, or just stick to the form itself?...as far as e-mail, I only have a couple people but I think the majority of the FB friends can do the job Yes use the template from the exposure 101 thread. Make sure you hit family members and married friends of OM and of your WWs first. When are you exposing?
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Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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