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A New Life!
#2718840 04/10/13 12:52 PM
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It's been quite a while since I posted here. Probably the last time was when I was still in the middle of dealing with things with my now ex-husband. I'm happy to report that I am now divorced, annulled and have been dating a wonderful man for over a year.

I'll admit, I struggled when I first met my boyfriend because I was very recently separated and not sure how to handle the residual feelings and issues...but now things are much more settled and really amazing.

I just wanted to come back and thank everyone for your help and join the dating section because I really feel that this website has helped me develop a strong relationship this time around! Thanks!!!

Me: BW
Ex-Husband: WH
DDay #1: 8/30/11
DDay #2: 9/14/11
Separated: 12/16/11
Happily Divorced: 2/27/13

In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: it goes on.
~ Robert Frost

Joyfully moving on with my life... =)
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Hi >waving<

It is refreshing to be free from your "lemon-man" is it not?

Nov 2011, I wrote to you:

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Sorry, if your WH were a car I'd say ..... you married a lemon.
You can stay with him another 5 years, he will still be a lemon.

Thanks for the update.

You can use the MB wisdom to build a wonderful future marriage !!!!
Be sure to get His Needs Her Needs and LoveBusters.

Make use of the FREE questionnaires available on this site.

Learn how to POJA and not to develop a Renter-to-Renter type marriage.
Learn how sacrifice ruins marriage.

It's an exciting update!!!
hurray

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Re: A New Life!
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Learn the difference between Buyers Renters and Freeloaders ~~~> *** HERE *** .


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Re: A New Life!
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Already done =)
We are both buyers, for sure!

I'm not pushing to get married right away, but I do have a very good feeling about this.

Thanks again!

Me: BW
Ex-Husband: WH
DDay #1: 8/30/11
DDay #2: 9/14/11
Separated: 12/16/11
Happily Divorced: 2/27/13

In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: it goes on.
~ Robert Frost

Joyfully moving on with my life... =)
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Originally Posted by Pepperband
Hi >waving<

It is refreshing to be free from your "lemon-man" is it not?

Nov 2011, I wrote to you:

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Sorry, if your WH were a car I'd say ..... you married a lemon.
You can stay with him another 5 years, he will still be a lemon.

Thanks for the update.


Haha! I didn't even see this part the first time I read through! Yes, it feels amazing. And it's crazy what a huge difference there can be when you are with someone who is committed and wants what you want out of life!

Me: BW
Ex-Husband: WH
DDay #1: 8/30/11
DDay #2: 9/14/11
Separated: 12/16/11
Happily Divorced: 2/27/13

In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: it goes on.
~ Robert Frost

Joyfully moving on with my life... =)

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