HI <BR>Just wanted to know if theres any old faces like mine still visiting here? I haven't been here for several months...It was just getting too depressing...never heard any happy endings...sorry I don't have a happy ending either...But wondered about the rest of you...Has anyone put their marriage back on the right track...I sure hope so...could use a positive story...to give me hope...<BR>Thanks<BR>lonesome

hi lonesome, <BR>my memory is not so great, but I remember you! You made an impression.<BR>Not all are sad stories. My marriage is healing. Has been one yr this month since discovery of the last affair, and we are actually doing great. <BR>Cannot really share any great secrets but can tell you that a lot of the healing came from within. Seemed that once I truly felt compassion (instead of wanting to knock his head off) for his illness, we began to communicate so much more clearly. <BR>Things did not just happen-it was/is a lot of work. But it is no onger really a chore in my mind. <BR>'Baby steps' or 'two forward, one back' do apply to all recoveries. Just remember that we all go thru that, it is normal, expected, and you will recover.<BR>You may not recover as a couple, but you will recover as a stronger person. <BR>Hang in there lonesome. The road is long but there really is a rainbow at the end.

hi lonesome, well you picked an 'emotional' time on the board to pop back....wheww...<BR>any way, yes i remember the name, but not the details. my husband and i are now seperated. i'm not sure how it will go. i thought his affair had been over since last oct but i found it still going on in aug. <BR>what's your update?<P>------------------<BR>Kellie<BR>Sometimes Love Just Ain't Enough<P>

Hi lonesome, you and I arrived at MB about the same time. Unfortunately/fortunately, I still post every day...no ending--happy or not--here, just variations of the same ole, same ole.<P>I'm curious as to what your situation is?<BR><P>------------------<BR>Lor<BR>"Do not get tired of doing what is right, for after awhile you will reap a harvest of blessings if you do not get discouraged and give up. (Gal 6:9)<P>

lonesome, read Lark's post on Questions for those rebuilding. You'll find that some of us would say there is hope and progress, but always qualified statements about the future.<P>I'm relatively new, so I don't know your story. My computer seems to not want to process the "My story" part of profile, so just check my old posts if you want to know the background. <P>Lizzie<BR>(His Pearl)<P>------------------<BR>When you go through deep waters and great trouble, I will be with you. Isaiah 43:2<P><BR>