Sorry. I haven't followed advice. I didnt post to bother anyone. I was just hoping things would have changed. I was trying hard to forget the past and I didn't succeed. I didnt mean to ignor what people said to waste anyone's time. I really thought it was going to work out after our last blow out.

I'm sorry for wasting your time. I won't post again.

Thank You

Since nothing has changed are you going to go into Plan B and going to see a lawyer?

You're not wasting our time. Any one of us can choose to spend the time to keep posting back to you or not.

It's never too late to follow the advice you have been given. It's been long enough, don't you think, for him to show you a permanent change in how he treats you. Trying hard to forget the past, or pretend some things never happened, or pretending that today didn't happen the way it did is not going to change one thing for the better in your life.

And why are trying hard to forget the past? Is he doing anything for you to help you do that? I suspect that someone told you to or made you feel like that was what you were supposed to do even though he's acting the same today as he did yesterday.

Him asking you from time to time if you want to separate or divorce is just a game, one which I, myself, have never understood.

If he actually gives you a little money when you ask, then use that to your advantage to get you and your children set up for a better, more stable lifestyle.

You can do it - really, you can.